So I kinda like two boys and they both like me. But now I
like one more than the other and I flirt with him more, but I feel like I'm
leading on the other one. I don’t know what to do, but I really have feelings
for them both and everyone knows. Any help?
Hey girlie, you’re right; you don’t want to lead a guy on if
you’re really into someone else. So if you’re interested in making one of them
your BF, it’s time to stop flirting with the other. You can still be friendly
to the dude you’re not so into, but cut the flirting ASAP and keep convos
casual from now on. Hopefully he’ll get
the hint and follow your lead.
But if choice number two asks you out or gets overly
flirtatious (like holding your hand or sneaking love notes into your locker), be
honest and let him know that you’re really interested in someone else. Telling him
the truth is the best thing for both of you. You don’t want to go out with a
guy that you’re not completely into and nobody wants to be their beau’s second-choice
pick. So be kind but straightforward; he’ll get the point and go on to find
someone else and you’ll be free to be with the sweetie you like the most.
BY LAUREN IZQUIERDO ON 10/27/2012 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, crush crash course, how can I choose