I am 14 and a virgin but, ever since I was 11, I’ve been
doing everything except that. It’s with my brother’s friends, who are about two
or three years older than I am. Is it wrong? I know none of the guys likes me.
Dear Boy Crazy,
When it comes to sex, 14 is way, way too young—and 11 is
alarmingly so. Say no to these guys, and yes to your self-respect. They are
abusing you. I’m sorry your brother lets his friends take advantage of you.
That is terrible! Please stay a virgin, and confide in a trusted adult who can
help you start the new year in a much more positive way.
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 12/19/2012 12:00:00 AM
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