I’ve liked this boy for
two years now, but I moved in last year and now I feel like I’m stalking him. We’re
friends on Facebook, I follow him on Instagram, etc. and I recently got his
number, so now I feel like a creeper. What should I do?!?!
I can totally see why you’re feeling a little bit weird about
the situation. Having access to so much info about one person does have the
tendency to do that. Keep in mind, though, that plugging into all of someone’s
social media profiles has become the new norm. What you see as stalker-ish, he—and
lots of other people—probably just sees as a standard way of keeping in touch.
That being said, he is
your crush. Try and communicate with him. If you see he’s on Facebook at the
same time you are, send him a quick message. Or maybe shoot him a text when
something funny happens that you know he’ll appreciate. But only text him if he personally gave you his number. Otherwise, yeah, it will look kinda creepy.
Also, don’t go overboard or anything—like, don’t start "liking" all
of his pics and status or texting him every other hour. But letting him know
that you’re still around even if you’ve moved away couldn’t hurt at all. It
might help you feel less self-conscious about all the sites you’re connected
through, and I bet you guys will get closer in the process. Good luck, girl!
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BY FLORENCE NOORINEJAD ON 3/9/2013 12:00:00 AM
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