Dear Carol

My bestie isn't acting like a very good friend

 
BFF’s are supposed to be loyal, right? Well, my BFF is a different story. She does not call me back, and when I ask if she’s free, she always says, “I don’t know.”

 

 

Dear Annoyed by BFF,

So rephrase the question. When someone asks if I’m free, before I say “Yes,” I want to know if she’s inviting me to a black-tie opening or to dig up dandelions. Try to be a fun, caring friend, and I hope she’ll do the same. (You deserve a friend who will call you back, after all.) And since friendships shift at this stage, reach out to others too.

 

BY CAROL WESTON ON 3/22/2013 12:00:00 AM

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