We’ve all been faced with this problem. There’s a guy you really
like, but when it comes to the kissing department, he could improve, a lot. Should
you ditch him? No way! Here’s how you deal.
Step One: Identify the problem. Know what it is specifically that
you don’t like. Is it bad breath? Too sloppy, too aggressive, too much tongue?
Because simply saying, “You’re a bad kisser,” isn’t really fair—or helpful. You
should be able to tell him what in particular he’s doing that you aren’t really
Step Two: Take control. Start by showing—not telling—him how you
want him to kiss you. This can be tricky, but don’t worry. If he’s not picking
up on it, move on to Step Three.
Step Three: Verbalize your concerns. Tell him this is a nice way:
“I love when you do ________,” but, “when you do ________, it doesn’t really
work.” Also add, “I’d love it if you did ________ more!” Follow this pattern,
and he’s sure to hear you without getting his feelings hurt.
Step Four: Practice makes perfect! Guys with less experience
aren’t going to be great kissers right away, so they will appreciate your help,
as long as you’re nice about it.
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BY HANNAH MESHULAM ON 5/18/2013 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, crush crash course, boyfriend Q & A, kissing crash course, weird guy stuff