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Help! Guys won't date me because I won't "do" anything


 
These cute guys all think I'm pretty, but they don’t ask me out because they think I won’t “do” anything. How can I convince them to go out with me?
 
Bill: A great poet, W.H. Auden, wrote that we want not to be loved but “to be loved alone.” Typically, a guy doesn’t ask a pretty girl out because he’s convinced she won’t love only him. Just find a guy you really like, and let him know that, despite your good looks, you really like him.
 
Dave: Without getting all literary, I recommend being yourself. But careful what you wish for. Do you really want to go out with a cute guy because he wants you to “do” something? It’s best to sort those issues out after you’ve established a solid relationship.
 
 

BY BILL AND DAVE ON 5/27/2013 12:00:00 AM

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