Crushes

I like this guy, but we kinda hate each other

 
 
There's this one guy that I just started liking, but we kind of hate each other. We're rude all the time to each other. But my friends say that we flirt. What do I do to get him to like me?

 

Define “hate.” Are you guys seriously mean, or is it more playful teasing and sarcasm? If you guys aren’t acting with cruel intentions, then it seems like you’re flirting. He may be acting “rude” because he doesn’t know how else to act around a girl he likes.

 

Try being genuinely nice for a change. Have a sincere conversation with him, and see how that goes. You guys seem to have a fun, playful relationship going, but maybe you have more in common than that! Break through the jokes and show him that you have a “real” side too.

 

Maybe invite him on a group outing somewhere first with some mutual friends—if you two aren’t that close. A different environment could bring a change in his behavior and convo style. If that goes well, (less teasing and “meanness” and more heart-to-heart convos) and it seems like he may be really interested, upgrade to a real date.

 

 

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BY ANDI CWIEKA ON 8/10/2013 12:00:00 AM

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