A friend keeps canceling on me and I want to confront her
but I don’t want to come off as bitchy as so many girls do.
Getting on a high horse and acting angry is not the
solution. But no need to be a doormat. Reach out to other girls, but next time
this girl cancels on you, keep your tone even, mature and steady, and without
crying or shrieking, say, “Hey, we made a plan and I’m disappointed that you’re
breaking it.” It’s okay to grow a backbone, and if this girl objects, well,
she’s not really a model friend anyway. And who needs friends you can’t count
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