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This kinda geeky guy is obsessed with me. He gives me compliments and presents, and tells me how much I mean to him. It’s flattering but sort of creepy. I don’t like him, but I don’t want to hurt his feelings.

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i need help with a guy. he is a junior and im a senior. but that doesnt matter to me. lately we have been having a thing. i walk him to class and we say bye and kiss. i like it, but idk if i like him... & i really dont want to lead him on to something more serious since i dont know if i want anything more serious. what should i do ?!?!?!?!

Hey peace-love, make it clear to him you don't want it to go any further. Refer to him as "friend" and "pal" in conversations so he knows how you feel. Maybe stop kissing him to keep it on a friendly level. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

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by peace-love on 11/29/2012 6:58:30 PM

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This guy has been completely in love with me for the pas year and a half, but i dont like him at all. Lately he has been all over me, like grabbing my should or throwing his arm around me. I try to shrug him off and when i see him across the hallway, i turn around and go the other way but that hasnt been helping. What should i do to get him off me but not be too mean???!!!

Hey girlie, that's a tricky situation. Just keep trying what you've been doing. If you keep doing it he should get the hint. If not, tell him gently that it makes you uncomfortable and you would rather he didn't do that.

Lauren T.

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by DogLov3r on 11/11/2012 6:45:06 PM

Okay, so I am a Junior in high school, and I have never been kissed! I feel so left out because all of my friends have been, and I am the only one... I don't know what to do.

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by buckeyebabe27 on 11/7/2012 10:10:35 PM

My BFF's family and my family are really close. Our moms have known eachother for FOREVER, so when they moved here, I was really excited. My BFF is two years older than me, and even though it sounds weird that we're so different in age, its cool that we can see things from different age perspectives. Anyway, I totally love her, but her lil bro is my age and he's had a crush on me since (as my mom claims) he was born (I'm three months older than him). He's been doing a lot better-he used to come up to my room and ask me out when they came over, he'd google me and all this creepy stuff-but now instead of being creepy, he's just mean. He constantly tells my crush that Im obsessed with him and it's really embarrassing. I told my mom and she said that my crush shouldnt care if he likes me back. When he found out I liked him, he said he took it as a compliment, but im still worried that my BFFs lil bro is going to ruin the really good friendship between my crush and I. HELP!

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by WashingtonGirlie13 on 11/5/2012 4:40:24 PM