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Sometimes, I wonder why I don’t have friends who are boys. Not a boyfriend, just friends who are boys. I just want a good guy friend to go to for support that girls sometimes can’t give me. How do you make friends who are guys.
 
Dear Guy Friends,
Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote, “the only way to have a friend is to be one.” Guys are people, too. And they don’t just offer support but, like you, sometimes need support. To make friends, express interest. Ask, “How’d the game go?” or “Is your grandpa getting better?” or “Did you get the interview?” Next, be a good listener. If you say, “How was your weekend?” and he says “Coulda been better,” follow up with a sympathetic, “What do you mean?” Back and forth communication is the key to all friendships.
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 10/7/2011 7:00:00 AM

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oOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHH.... the guy in the pic sure caught my eye.

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by Danerka on 4/4/2012 9:10:37 PM

 
 

i dont have any guy friends well i used to but we kinda drifted apart. now they barly eve talk to me my friends think its wierd if i say one word to a guy in a day cuz i barely talk anymore. i want to talk to them but i always just say the wrong thing. there is only one guy that i talk too and i thought he liked me because he said oh i like this girl then he said that he doesnt and i asked why and he said ... but now it seems like he hates me i just say ask me some thing and he just says NO im pretty sure im bugging him too. i have no idea what i am doing wrong. help me please!!

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by candycanes on 3/17/2012 11:37:57 PM

 
 

Honestly I think I'd be better of with a guyfriend and yet I go to a girls school :/

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by cindy5218 on 10/27/2011 5:29:50 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!
I really like this boy and I'm pretty sure he likes me too. My mom says I'm allowed to date. My mom and dad are divorced so I see him every other weekend. I'm worried about having a BF. I feel like it's going to be insanely awkward to tell my dad because I don't think he wants me to have a BF. I live with my mom so there's really not anything he can do but I'm still worried. Also, I'm afraid that if I get a BF things between my mom and me are going to be weird and uncomfortable. Considering I wont really be 'her baby' anymore (even though I'm almost 14) I just need some advice. should i wait to get a BF? my mom says its good to get a BF around my age cuz then i can see what it's all about and be ready for possibly having a BF in high school. I just don't know what to do. I'm confused.

 

Hey chica, I think you should only have a bf if YOU are ready. Don't have one just to have one. If your mom says it's ok and you like a boy, then go for it. Things could only be weird between you and your mom if you make it that way. Having a bf doesn't mean you have to act differently. Just take it slow and see if this boy wants to be your bf and take it from there. 

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by BalletChic25 on 10/26/2011 8:52:47 AM

 
 

Hey!!!! I need help and FAST!!!!! I asked my crush (who I have been crushing on for 7 years) to go to the school dance and I have absolutely no Idea how to dance!!!!!!!! I need a response by this Friday! P.S. I'm 11

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by Puppy9503 on 10/23/2011 1:20:32 AM

 
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