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I’ve had a crush on this guy for months. We see each other almost every day and hold hands often. We have lunch, see movies and do practically everything together! I call him, and he’s at my house in like a minute.
So, the other day I asked him who his best friend is and he said I am. I was extremely flattered…but also confused.
I thought he liked me as a GF. What’s up?
BILL: Isn’t man’s best friend supposed to be a dog? But you don’t hold hands with your pet so, obviously, this guy is serious about you. Maybe he’s moved past the stage of shyly professing attraction to the much higher stage of professing affection. Consider it a compliment. Pat him on the head and say, “Good boy!”
DAVE: It sounds as though you get to do all the cool BF/GF stuff, and your guy is there for you in a shake. So big deal if he’s having a little difficulty defining things. Small price to pay for bliss. Besides, lots of guys consider their GFs to also be their BFFs. So there.
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BY CAITLIN R. ON 6/20/2009 7:00:00 AM 315 COMMENTS
okay,my ex-bf told me he loved me last year. i'm only 12 and i dont want "LOVE". i broke up with him and this year we got back together and the same thing happened and i broke up with him. i dont love him, but idk if i even like him anymore. i wanna be his friend but idk..HELP ME!
peterpanwearsgreen on 3/18/2010 11:56:34 PM
Hey guys. I have a huge crush on this guy, but we don't have any classes together. I was about to start a convo with him when someone told him I liked him and thought it was hot when he sweats. Which it is, but...now I don't know how to talk to him without making things totally awkward!
Horseluva123 on 3/18/2010 8:02:19 PM
legitGL on 3/17/2010 10:07:56 PM
fashionista37 on 3/17/2010 5:25:26 PM
hey guys um my guy freind used to like me and i liked him and then one night on fb(facebook) he had to do something and he wouldnt tell me what so the next day he tells me he doesnt like me any more. he doesnt like me because a girl called him and said she liked him then the girl cheated on him and now he still doesnt like me at least i dont think he does im confused!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
taytay23 on 3/16/2010 10:10:36 PM
My boyfriend says he loves me sooo much but sometimes he doesn't act it and ignores me. Sometimes he flirts with other girls even my bestie! Then when we hang out he acts like nothing is wrong and is totally into me. I have bawled my eyes out wondering what I did wrong. I'm so confused! HELP! D:
PJforever on 3/16/2010 3:02:05 PM
Me and this guy (that i really like) Used to hang out alot. We would go to the movies and the mall together! Then I kindly and expresed my feelings for him on a letter i wrote. He acted all cool for a while so didnt think he got my letter and i didnt care. So i called him up one saterday morning and asked him if he wanted to go to a carnival with me my freind and her BF. He was really quet and i hadto say something but when i said his name he just went UM and then he hung up the phone now we hang at school and dont eamil or call or hang out out of school! Ia he being pg headed?
markocrazy1 on 3/16/2010 11:35:54 AM
My BF always wants to hang out and always texted me now that i told him being to clingiy isnt good he hardly textez me and never wants to hang out. Hes also being pushed to hug me and its not right cuz he thinks hes going to get beat up by his friend if he doesnt. IDK what to do about this and joks are made but im happy with him. Please help me!!! IDK about what to do?????
smeaker 9 on 3/15/2010 8:38:32 PM
Icegalgirl1017 on 3/14/2010 3:04:41 PM
CAN SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME WELL THIS IS THE STORY I WAS IN 5TH GRADE I HAD TO CHOSE SCHOOL FOR MIDDLE SCHOOL AND THEY DIDNT ACEPT ME ON ANY SCHOOL SO THEN SINCE THAT HAPPPEND I COULD CHOSE ANY SCHOOL FROM THE WHOLE BRONX SO I WANTED TO GO TO ANOTHER SCHOOL BUT I WENT WITH MY SO CALL BFF BUT I WAS NOT IN THE SAME CLASS AS HER ON 6TH GRADE I MET THIS REALLY CUTE/NICE GUY HE Was in my class so then few months later he was going out wif some gurl then my new friend like the same boy and was jelous no one knew but i was 2 then in the middle of the year my friend went out wif him they really never seem like a couple but then all the the time i was his friend we were cool and all that to my friend and him broke up then at the end of the year my crush best friend told me if i like the boy i like i said idk he said yes u do because i know and then he told me my crush really like i didnt know wat to do so i told him it was a lie the next day my crush didnt come 2 school because he went to P.R the whole summer vacation i thought and thought that i really really like my crush so now that im in 7th grade i was still cool wif my crush so then some 2 months past this girl was going to was going out wif my crush this was a new girl so then i they broke up and i told my crush i really like him since then we stop talking its been 5 months i havent talk to him but now i just want to be friends....but around 2 months ago my crush told me he didnt like me so loud my friends try to convince him but nothing but so alot of things had happend between these months but like 1 weeks ago my crush was going to say sorry etc but i was scared so i didnt go but just before that he got hit in the face with the football so we didnt have time to talk but the day before my friend herd that he said he hates when i hide and i do but yesterday we had to finish some class work we came up from lunch and i saw him and we stare at eachother for like for 1 mn and he was like watz up with his head HELP ME IDK WAT TO DO!!
crazy4lyfe on 3/13/2010 1:37:54 PM
crazy4lyfe on 3/13/2010 1:37:26 PM
help my friends bf is so clingy but i like him so i have ben realy cranky and i cant get over him so what do i do help plz.
cloeberry on 3/10/2010 11:16:57 PM
i have a ? all my friends have bf's but i don't. my friend sead that a dude likes me should i beleve her?
cloeberry on 3/10/2010 10:25:18 PM
luvs13 on 3/6/2010 11:00:24 AM
I really like this boy. But whenever I try to flirt with him, nothing turns out the way I plan. My friend is having pool party, and he's going to be there. How can I attract his attention? please respond ASAP.
pinkponies17 on 3/5/2010 8:41:46 PM
Hi, I love your advice columm. I was wondering, Do guys talk about girls as much as we talk about them? And if a guys best friend says his friend likes you, is it true?
kitkatluver12 on 3/5/2010 2:19:03 PM
im confused about this guy..he's been my friend for nearly 2 years and everytime i see him i get butterflies. i have recently broken up with my boyfriend but i still keep thinking about my friend. he goes to universtiy and im still stuck in london and so whenever he texts me, he never asks about how im doing he just goes on about he feels! its annoyin ..i dont know whether he's interested or not because we kissed a few times when he came down recently and apparently he said he feels the same about me?
joti-s on 3/4/2010 1:52:55 PM
MzLadyBug4ever on 3/1/2010 6:30:50 PM
MzLadyBug4ever on 3/1/2010 5:45:18 PM
Problem, I've been stuck on a bad boy since the beginning of school. He's what's keepin me from persuin this good guy who helps coach my sisters hockey team. ciarra
ciarrasweetie on 2/28/2010 7:31:17 PM
So, the most popular, hawt, boy in my grade (possibly school) is in sum of my classes. He knos i like him but one of his friends told me hes not diggin it. I think hes more into himself and breakin laws than me. But its soo hard to get ovr some1 uve like since the first day.
ciarrasweetie on 2/28/2010 7:17:00 PM
heyy everyone! so i need advice on how to get over my ex, i just cant.
xdaagbfx on 2/26/2010 4:59:03 PM
Dear bill and dave i have this boi tht i used to go out wit we were in love and we were going out for a whole 6 months sum one came along sumone older tht liked me i wuz blinded bye the fact that sumone older like me so i dropped the other relationship for a new we broke a week l8er and i know tht i want ma ex bac we were crazy in luv i cant cuz i hurt hym so he moved and he wants to do lond distance but he lives far n tlkin to hym on the fone makes me wanna see him more wht should i doo help and he still has crazy feelings for me help mepleez
cheergyrl15 on 2/25/2010 11:03:42 AM
lovely96 on 2/23/2010 5:12:40 PM
there is this boy on my b.ball team that i REALLY like. everytime i tlk to him i stutter or just go completely blank. i told my sister about it and she said i might have my first crush... he iz very shy around girls and very sweet and cute. if he is my first crush what should i do......
Sassy J on 2/20/2010 10:55:55 PM
1234....are the people I have a crush on and they do not know.Is that too much?What do I do?
EmmaM on 2/19/2010 7:25:50 PM
I used to like a guy but then he called me stupid I've been ignoring him since is that right?
EmmaM on 2/19/2010 7:19:35 PM
I have too many crushes!What do I do?
EmmaM on 2/19/2010 7:15:08 PM
Hey, my BFF cannot be single! One day this guy she didn't even know asked her out and she said yes because she hated her two weeks of being single. During V-day she hung out with her controlling ex so she wouldn't be alone.I told her that I was afraid she'd get hurt by getting back with these guys. She said I only hated him because he was racist against non christians. (I'm Jewish) How is this old flame getting between us? How do I keep my friend from getting hurt?
arg5890 on 2/18/2010 8:30:11 PM
It looks like you have a bad situation!!!!! Do alot more girlfriend stuff with him. Then he might ask you out. Or just ask him out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Lillypad9910 on 2/18/2010 5:42:58 PM
you should definetly discuss it with your friends, and tell them why you want to talk to him
GreekGirl67 on 2/16/2010 3:36:53 PM
If you feel liek this guy is good for you, go for it. But try to talk to your friends about it so they know where youre coming from too.
GreekGirl67 on 2/16/2010 3:33:07 PM
You should try to figure out which one is better for you and which one will treat you better. If one of them comes to mind right away, you have your answer hope this helps!
GreekGirl67 on 2/16/2010 3:30:45 PM
Heyy girl,
GreekGirl67 on 2/16/2010 3:29:14 PM
Maya M I need idvice!
shortstuff111 on 2/15/2010 11:31:20 PM
I kinda like this boy but all my friends tell me that i dontneedhim so i dont know what i should do. If i decided to talk to him i would notknow how to tell him i like him. Please Help
mandyboo1999 on 2/12/2010 11:31:15 PM
Hey Girl, Sounds like you have got quite the situation... But what you need to do is give it some time...Then when you think you are ready tell him how you feel about it..Because all u could no is he could be wondering the same thing about you... "Does she like me?"I mean go for it....!!!! I think that it sounds like hes pretty into you..
Vanilla_star96 on 2/12/2010 10:05:47 AM
how much older should your bf be than you?
gossipgirlfan101 on 2/11/2010 10:37:14 PM
Dear Dave, My ex and I broke up 4 months ago. I'm still crazy in love with him and want to go back out. We dated for 19 months! He sends me mixed signals so I'm not sure if he wants to try it again. We don't text a lot but he told me I don't talk a lot to him anymore. He likes this other girl but she lives in a different state and said she'd never date a freshman so I'm not that worried about her, even though they text all day everyday. I'm not sure if he still likes me or not. We talk a little bit at school. He still looks at me secretly at break and stuff. My friends say we'll have another chance but I'm not sure. Help?
oneduffisenough3 on 2/10/2010 5:11:03 PM
Hay i have a ? There is this boy in a town close bye and he always says hi and follows me too. he has a kinda of a girlfriend she is older than him but everybody says he really doesn't act like he likes her and he is kinda cute but he follows me and looks at me like he likes me,but is always with his boys do you think he likes me?????????????????? boy confused
DDAY on 2/7/2010 4:21:17 PM
One of my BFFs told me that one of my BGFs best friends told her that my BGF talked about me sometimes and said that he might like me. Valentine's Day is only a week away, and I like him too. What do I do?
lucy408 on 2/7/2010 2:25:24 PM
emigirl97 on 2/5/2010 11:45:09 PM
Artsychic#70 on 2/5/2010 5:07:09 PM
rosieuchiha on 2/5/2010 9:18:14 AM
I've always had a problem with liking guys and never telling them (sometimes my friends do) I can't get a boyfriend, and I kind of want one. What can I do to make myself more approachable to guys?
Marisa2015 on 2/4/2010 3:37:12 PM
wat if ur crush likes u and u now but ur crush is goin out wit someone else and u asked him if we will get together someday on and he said yea and idk wat to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
shary28 on 2/3/2010 9:59:20 PM
OK,THIS BOY NAMED JOSE I LIKE HIM SO MUCH,BUT HE HATES ME BECAUSE I GAVE HIM A NOTE THAT SAID I LIKED HIM AND WE WERE REALLY GOOD FRIENDS AND NOW HE WON'T TALK TO ME OR EVEN LOOK AT ME.WHAT SHALL I DO?
ilovemyboyfriend on 2/1/2010 6:44:33 PM
theres this guy ive been crush on 4 a while and he lives up the road from me i think he likes me but hes just soooo moody and i dont know if is hould ask hi wat should i plz help me!!
painogril56 on 1/31/2010 5:55:04 PM
heys guys i need advice!!!
girlrosy251 on 1/31/2010 4:23:09 PM
I'll try to make this short and sweet. I fell in love with my boyfriend even though i'm only 15. I know this because when he was going to give a quick peck goodbye, I got nervous (even though we always kiss) and dodged him. And we've been together for around 6 months, i do believe. Anyway, I became an obessive freak since then, and instead of stalking him, I decided to lie low so I didn't scare/worry him. He's a sweetheart and all, but I started to miss him 24/7 especially since we go to different schools. We hide our relationship from my parents because they're clingy. But whenever I'm around him I get queasy and nervous and I don't know what to do. I freaked out one time when he grabbed my hand, so I lied and said we should take a break since my parents are getting suspicious. He agreed but he seemed sad. I know I totally messed up, but what should I do? I'm a huge tomboy so I understand that saying "I love you" is risky, and I'm scared to do it, and he's completely worth the risk, but I just can't do it. I rather be by him than have the awkward friendship. What should I do? And do I really love him or am I just young and stupid?
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