Does cheating count if it's long distance?

My BF lives on the other side of the state and I only get to see him about once a month. Soon, I'll see him for four days at camp (the place where we met). He calls me every day, but I...

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Do guys prefer girls in bikinis?

Do guys only like girls in bikinis? My mom won’t let me get one for summer, but I don’t want to blend into the sand! Dave: Your mom’s directive may be a blessing in disguise (parental instructions have a tendency to do...

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Help! Guys won't date me because I won't "do" anything

These cute guys all think I'm pretty, but they don’t ask me out because they think I won’t “do” anything. How can I convince them to go out with me? Bill: A great poet, W.H. Auden, wrote that we want not to...

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The Real Deal: Why guys hate shopping

Why is it most guys don’t like to shop? I don't really mind that boys don't like shopping, but I wonder if there’s a reason most girls love it while most guys hate it. Bill: Let’s go back to caveman days. Guys would...

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Help! My BF told everyone we kissed--but we didn't!

My boyfriend is going to all his friends and saying that I'm a great kisser. We've only been going out for a week. I haven't even kissed him on the cheek! What should I tell him? Dave: “See ya!” is the...

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Play hard to get--without coming off snooty

I have this crush on this one guy on Student Council. The problem is I'm an idiot when I'm around him. When we were leaving a meeting, he said goodbye to everyone then he looked at me, but I was playing hard...

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Do guys only care about chest size?

Why are guys so fascinated with breasts? How does a less-developed girl get a guy’s attention? Bill: Specific female body parts can be merely attention-grabbing objects to fuel our misguided macho desires. Sooner or later, most guys realize breasts don’t make the girl, and they...

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Why do people set me up with guys I don't like?

I am Asian-American, and I hate when people match me up with Asian boys I don’t like and act like we’re supposed to be together. I actually like a boy who’s not Asian, and I’m not sure if he even...

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The Scoop: Do guys dig tall girls?

I am 5-foot-11 and don’t have a BF. My friends say, “You’re too tall. It intimidates guys.” Am I doomed to be single forever? Dave: Doomed? There’s nothing wrong with being tall or single—each has some rather nice advantages. But, most likely, both situations...

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Who should you take to prom: Your BF or BGF?

I have a BF and BFF, who’s a guy. They both asked me to our spring fling. Of course, I really want to go with my boyfriend—but I don’t want to hurt my bud’s feelings. What should I do? Dave: Seems pretty clear...

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