Is there a way to flirt without being obvious?

Is there a way to flirt with a guy without giggling or touching his arm or being too obvious or annoying? A few girls can pull it off, but others seem like they’re trying too hard. Dear Just Not Flirty, Here...

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What he really thinks of your fave summer outfit

Summertime means party time! What better time to catch your crush’s eye with a sweet new outfit. If you’re convinced he won’t even notice your get-up, guess again. We asked some of our real-life BGFs what they thought of summer’s hottest trends...

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Play hard to get--without coming off snooty

I have this crush on this one guy on Student Council. The problem is I'm an idiot when I'm around him. When we were leaving a meeting, he said goodbye to everyone then he looked at me, but I was playing hard...

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Why can't I get a guy?

Why don't guys ask me out? I play tons of sports, am in the Gifted and talented program, and I've been told I'm pretty and funny, but I still don't get the guy! Could the problem be that my mom is a teacher...

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Help! I scared off my crush--can I get a do over?

I really like this guy and, about a month ago, we had a dance at school. It was really cool because he kept talking to me. He seemed to really like me. After the dance, I was so obsessed that I posted stuff...

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6 signs you should or shouldn't go on that second date

Congrats, you made it through a first date! And you know what that means. To go on a second date or not to go on a second date? We've made a list of some signs to help guide you to making the best...

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16 ways to get his attention

Sometimes we feel like we’re doing everything right when it comes to guys. We’re being our fun, bubbly selves, laughing at his jokes and smiling sweetly in the halls. Sure, he seems like he could be interested, but sometimes it’s as if he...

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Reader Advice: 6 no-fail ways to chat up your crush

Let’s face it: Breaking the ice with your crush is no easy feat. But then there are those girls who are natural-born flirts. Guy gurus, if you will. That’s why we asked our readers to share their go-to convo starters to...

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6 signs your crush is eco-friendly

He's cute, he's talented, he's totally hilarious... but is he green? In honor of Earth Day, we've compiled 6 of our fave environmentally friendly acts, which we can't help but find attractive. If your cutie is conscientious about the planet, he gets major...

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Do guys only care about chest size?

Why are guys so fascinated with breasts? How does a less-developed girl get a guy’s attention? Bill: Specific female body parts can be merely attention-grabbing objects to fuel our misguided macho desires. Sooner or later, most guys realize breasts don’t make the girl, and they...

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