Help! Guys won't date me because I won't "do" anything

These cute guys all think I'm pretty, but they don’t ask me out because they think I won’t “do” anything. How can I convince them to go out with me? Bill: A great poet, W.H. Auden, wrote that we want not to...

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Help! My BF told everyone we kissed--but we didn't!

My boyfriend is going to all his friends and saying that I'm a great kisser. We've only been going out for a week. I haven't even kissed him on the cheek! What should I tell him? Dave: “See ya!” is the...

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How to get guys to stop taking advantage of you

I am 14 and a virgin but, ever since I was 11, I’ve been doing everything except that. It’s with my brother’s friends, who are about two or three years older than I am. Is it wrong? I know none of the...

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Obsessed much? How to handle a smothering sweetie

My boyfriend is very sweet. But we are young, and he always tries to kiss me and is becoming very obsessive. I don’t want to go out with him if he keeps smothering me. It doesn’t help that his friends are my...

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The Real Deal: Is he just using you?

How do you know when a guy really likes a girl or is just "using" her? I'm fourteen now and I'm dating my crush since middle school. At first I felt like I scored because I finally got him. But now I'm just...

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My first kiss was a major letdown

I've always dreamed of my first kiss being wonderful. But a couple days ago, my boyfriend kissed me and it was kind of nasty because he shoved his tongue down my throat. Then he said I was an OK kisser for a first-timer...

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My BF asked me inappro questions

I’ve had a BF for about two months. He has been asking me nasty questions. Like, he asked me to make out, so we did. Now he’s asking to see and touch things. Ewww! I can’t tell him I’m not into that...

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When's the right time to kiss your BF?

I’m 13, and I’ve been thinking about making out with my boyfriend—but I’m not sure if I should. I really like him, but I’m afraid I’ll get into trouble or something. Should I do it? What age would be appropriate? At what age...

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How to calm your nerves before smooching your sweetie

My boyfriend just asked me recently if I would ever kiss him. I just told him that I don't know. Then I asked him if he would ever kiss me. He said yes. I felt all awkward. I kept thinking to myself, "What if...

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I'm scared of commitment!

This guy I've been crushing on and I were talking and somehow the conversation lead to marriage and he told me how he was all for it and having kids and all that. I told him I'm scared of commitment just because I've...

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