Am I shallow for turning down a date to the dance?

A boy asked me to our spring dance, and he’s sweet but not that attractive. I said no because I just don’t think of him in that way. Does saying no to him make me shallow? Also, there’s a boy I’m afraid to...

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Dude, get a clue! The real reason he won't move on

This guy asked me out, and I turned him down. In person, he says he’s OK with it. But he e-mails me about why I won’t go out with him. How can I tell him to get over it? Bill: Apparently, his ego is...

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What's so weird about being single?

When boys ask me out, I always say no. It’s because I don’t like anyone that much and don’t need all that drama in my life. My friends think I should start dating so they always make fun of me about it, which...

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Getting over an ex? How to avoid a rebound relationship

There's this guy that’s new to my school. I don't know him that well, but lately he's been hanging around me and flirting with me. I'm just getting over my last BF. What do I do to let him know I'm not interested? ...

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Don't want! Nix an admirer you can't stand

This guy thinks he’s in love with me, but I hate him. What should I do? Dear Clueless, Don’t be mean to the poor guy. So he has good taste. Hate is a brain drain. Can’t you just ignore him? He probably...

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