5 ways you might be leading him on

Sure, lots of guys send us crazy mixed messages. Did that hug mean he likes you or like likes you? Ugh, so frustrating. But hold on—girls can also mess with guys’ heads, whether we realize it or not. Because no girl wants to...

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What's so weird about having guy friends?

I have more friends who are boys than girls. My girlfriends tease me about this and say I’m weird. Dear Just Friends, Nothing is wrong with having friends who are boys. Could your girlfriends be jealous? When a person makes fun of you, it’s always...

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Am I shallow for turning down a date to the dance?

A boy asked me to our spring dance, and he’s sweet but not that attractive. I said no because I just don’t think of him in that way. Does saying no to him make me shallow? Also, there’s a boy I’m afraid to...

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Dude, get a clue! The real reason he won't move on

This guy asked me out, and I turned him down. In person, he says he’s OK with it. But he e-mails me about why I won’t go out with him. How can I tell him to get over it? Bill: Apparently, his ego is...

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What's so weird about being single?

When boys ask me out, I always say no. It’s because I don’t like anyone that much and don’t need all that drama in my life. My friends think I should start dating so they always make fun of me about it, which...

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Getting over an ex? How to avoid a rebound relationship

There's this guy that’s new to my school. I don't know him that well, but lately he's been hanging around me and flirting with me. I'm just getting over my last BF. What do I do to let him know I'm not interested? ...

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Don't want! Nix an admirer you can't stand

This guy thinks he’s in love with me, but I hate him. What should I do? Dear Clueless, Don’t be mean to the poor guy. So he has good taste. Hate is a brain drain. Can’t you just ignore him? He probably...

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