The Dirt: What guys really think of formals

Getting all glammed up and hitting the dance floor sounds like a blast for us girls. But guys, well, it’s hard to tell. They pull at their ties and complain about buying...

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Who should you take to prom: Your BF or BGF?

I have a BF and BFF, who’s a guy. They both asked me to our spring fling. Of course, I really want to go with my boyfriend—but I don’t want to hurt my bud’s feelings. What should I do? Dave: Seems pretty clear...

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Help! I like a jerk--should I give him a chance?

Everyone tells me this guy likes me and that we should date, but he always acts mean to me around his friends. He is friends with the typical "wrong group," but I know that he's good inside. How do I help him get...

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Why can't my BF be more romantic--like my BGF?

One of my close guy friends is going out with my BFF. I like this guy a lot as a friend but, I admit, I am jealous of their relationship. They are going to a movie next week, and they already went...

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Dude, get a clue! The real reason he won't move on

This guy asked me out, and I turned him down. In person, he says he’s OK with it. But he e-mails me about why I won’t go out with him. How can I tell him to get over it? Bill: Apparently, his ego is...

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Crush got ya confused? How to tell if he really likes you

There's this guy in my grade and he's really sweet to me. He would flirt with me a little sometimes, and I thought he liked me. Then, I found out he doesn't over the holidays. Now we're back in school, and he still...

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Oblivious boy? Why your BF doesn't notice your new 'do

Why doesn’t my BF ever notice when I get a new haircut or new clothes? Everyone else compliments me, but he doesn’t say a word. Dave: I doubt he means to be rude—he’s probably just oblivious. Not all guys see that great stuff, like glitter...

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Why is my BF keeping our relationship a secret?

I recently started going out with a guy friend, but I think he is embarrassed about it. He refuses to tell anyone we’re going out now. I don’t know what to think. Help! Bill: Guys often run in packs, like dogs. Or...

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Does he really want to stay friends after breaking up?

When a guy says he wants to be friends after he breaks up with you, does he mean it? Depends. If he is a solid, genuine guy who treated you with kindness and respect throughout your relationship, you can believe him when he...

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Gross! My BF started smoking

My boyfriend has taken up smoking. I don’t want him to think I’m acting like his mom, but it’s sooo gross. Dave: In addition to “sooo gross,” smoking is illegal under 18 and unhealthy at any age. Let your guy know he quits smoking...

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