How to get guys to stop taking advantage of you
I am 14 and a virgin but, ever since I was 11, I’ve been doing everything except that. It’s with my brother’s friends, who are about two or three years older than I am. Is it wrong? I know none of the guys likes me.
Dear Boy Crazy,
When it comes to sex, 14 is way, way too young—and 11 is alarmingly so. Say no to these guys, and yes to your self-respect. They are abusing you. I’m sorry your brother lets his friends take advantage of you. That is terrible! Please stay a virgin, and confide in a trusted adult who can help you start the new year in a much more positive way.