My BF dumped me five times! I like him only as a friend now, but I sometimes get these feelings I cant control-as though I still like him.

Dear Can’t Make Up My Mind,
Let me help you make up your mind: This relationship is not going to fly. He dumped you five times?! You went back to him four times after the first dis. You’ve given this way too many chances. It’s normal to have feelings for someone, but hang on to your pride. Move on. You can do it! A little longing is human, but don’t stay vulnerable to this boy forever. If he calls, tell him you’re busy. Summer can be a great time to make plenty of new crush connections.


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by Carol Weston | 2/1/2016