GIRL TALK: The Boy Next Door
I have been going out with this guy for about 2 months now, but I never see him because its summer. He never calls me, which makes it worse. I had to call him one time to actually try to talk to him and we didn’t even talk that long! ): Anyways since I haven’t been able to see my boyfriend I am kinda crushing on my neighbor who I see and hang out with ALOT! (: But idk what to do should I stay with my boyfriend (who I never see) or go for my neighbor! Help me plz!
The key to any relationship is communication and it sounds like that is exactly what's missing here. Call your boyfriend and arrange a time to meet up. If that's not possible, then just have the conversation over the phone. Let him know what it is you need in a boyfriend (ahem, some one who actually talks to you) and that aren't really happy in your relationship. If he seems like he's not willing to change, or you think you no longer want to be in that relationship, then maybe it's time to end it. There's no point in being in a relationship with someone you never see or talk to. Explain that to him. As for the neighbor, if you end things with your boyfriend, there's no reason not to go for the boy next door.
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