Dear Carol

"I like two guys and I don't know what to do"

Dear Carol,
ve just started ninth grade and I’ve liked this guy for a really long time. He’s good-looking and nice to me. Here’s the catch—there’s this other guy I’ve started noticing. He’s nice, we’re friends and he’s fun to be around, plus he is pretty cute. Basically, I’m into both guys and I don’t know what to do.
—Very Lost Girl

Dear Very Lost Girl,
Very lost? I’ve heard worse! Liking two guys is normal, and perhaps there’s no nail-biting urgency to figuring this out, right? Why not let time help you decide the right move? If one boy starts making it clear that he likes you back, that’s a factor too. It’s OK to be a little fuzzy and flexible about all this as you continue to get to know them better and as you figure out how you feel about them and they feel about you. P.S. The world has more than just two cute boys in it.

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by GL | 3/25/2019