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"Dear Carol, my boyfriend's texts sometimes make me feel uncomfortable"

Dear Carol,
All my boyfriend wants to do is make out. He always texts me about touching my boobs and my butt, and we don't talk about feelings. It makes me uncomfortable. He once asked me if it makes me uncomfortable and I said, "I'm kinda used to it." But I don't know. I really, really like him when he's not being a pig. What should I do?
—Uncomfortable Texts

Dear Uncomfortable Texts,
When he asked if his texts made you uncomfortable, that was your opportunity to say, "Yes." It's still not too late to say, "I should have been more honest with you. Your texts do make me uncomfortable." Now ask yourself why you "really, really" like this guy. You deserve to be appreciated for your heart and mind, not just your body. If you still think he's worthy, suggest a picnic in a park or a walk along the shore so you two can get real conversations going without things getting physical so fast.

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by Carol Weston | 11/11/2019
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