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Is it a girl crush...or a crush on a girl?


Every girl has a girl crush. Maybe you can't get over how beautiful or talented this girl at school is, or you love her sense of humor and style. But sometimes, those "love her"-vibes can move from admiration to something more...and it can be super confusing to try to figure your feelings out. Either way, it's okay, and we're here to help. Check out the checklist below to see if you're just fangirling or actually falling.

When you have a girl crush:

You're way into her talents/humor/style. 

You find her beautiful, but you're not attracted to her.

You want to be around her, but you don't think about her all the time.

You want to be like her, not be with her.

You know exactly *why* you have a girl crush on her.  

When you have a crush on a girl:

She gives you butterflies.

You think about her all the time.

You're physically attracted to her.

You daydream about what it would be like to go out with her.

You get jealous when she talks to other guys or girls. 

Remember: Some of these points might apply to both a girl crush or a crush on a girl or might not be relevant to you. These are just meant to be general helpful signs, not the be-all and end-all list! Every relationship is different, so if you're feeling confused, talk to someone you can trust.

 

 What's your experience with girl crushes? Let us know below!

by Kendyl Walker and Kimberly Uslin | 2/1/2016
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