That’s a sour situation, girl. I’m sorry you have to deal with it, especially since your parents don’t want to address the problem. There are three things I think you should try…

Write a letter

If you’re feeling ignored, this is something your parents need to think about, whether they want to or not. When you spoke to them, they might have been having a bad day or thought you were being whiney. Draft a letter to them stating your concerns and backing them up with examples. Leave your letter somewhere they’ll find it—taped to their bedroom door or propped up against the coffeemaker.

Talk to your bro

Depending on how good of a relationship you have with your sibling, it might be helpful to talk it out. Ask your brother if he has a sec to discuss something that’s been seriously bothering you, and then tell him that you’re feeling left out. If he agrees with you or is sympathetic enough to want to help you feel better, team up for a chat with your ‘rents and your grandparents. Warning: Avoid this option if your bro is seriously stuck-up or self-centered. No need to fuel the fire, right?

I’m sure that your grandparents love you, even if they are playing favorites. Give Grandma a call and tell her that you’ve got a huge piano recital coming up, and you would love to have her support. Could she maybe come up for a few days to see it and hang out? When they’re in town, suggest a girls-only activity, like baking, shopping or just a walk around the neighborhood.

by Brittany Taylor | 2/1/2016