My mom recently told me she is going to leave my dad after I graduate high school. She said she doesn’t love him anymore and thinks marrying him was a mistake!

I wish she hadn’t told me this. I guess I should accept it, but I’m still freaked out.

Is there anything I can do to calm myself?

Wow – too much information. No wonder you’re freaked. It’s great for moms and daughters to be close, but adult probs should not be dumped on kids’ shoulders. Now that you know about your mom’s plans, though, you have to deal with the bummer situation you’re in.

First, let her know you don’t want to hear any more of her negative feelings about your dad. If she feels the urge to spill her guts again, recommend that she speak to one of her friends instead.

Second, I suggest you talk to a school guidance counselor or other adult you trust so you can air your feelings. That’s way too huge of a secret to carry around by yourself.

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6/18/2009 7:00:00 AM