Ask Lucky: Plans With the Popular Peeps

Three girls in my group, including me, aren’t as popular as the other girls in our clique. The really popular girls always do fun stuff together. They are so nice and sweet.


How do I get included?


You say these girls are “nice and sweet,” so why wouldn’t they want to include everyone most of the time? Instead of focusing on what these girls do, concentrate on your true friendships. Even when it seems like the more “popular” girls are doing fun things, what’s to stop you from calling some real friends to make some fun plans of your own? If you’re intent on being included by these girls, instead of waiting for an invite, ask them if they’d like to catch a movie or come to your house for a sleepover—and be sure not to exclude anyone.


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7/14/2009 7:00:00 AM
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