My mom and dad got in a HUGE fight. My mom left for one month and nobody knew where she went! She came back and told my family she was having a baby. My dad seemed really upset. Then my mom sat me down and told me that the baby would only be half me.

I don't understand what’s happening. Why would my dad get mad? I thought people are happy when they find out about a new baby being brought into this world. Also my mom told me the baby couldn't live with my dad, but that he would live with the birth dad. Please help!

Wow girlie, this is an extremely difficult and intense family sitch. I am so sorry that you have to go through this. Not only does it stink when our ‘rents are fighting, but having all the added stress of this new baby is so much more than any kid should have to deal with.

While all these difficult changes are happening, it may be a good idea to try to spend as much time out of the house as possible. No need to be around the drama! When home-life is stressin’ me out I like to take time focusing on things that I personally enjoy, instead of dwelling on the pain. Like to write? Keep a journal that only you can read! Love the outdoors? Go for a walk or join the environmental club at school! Find whatever it is that you love doing, whether it’s a hobby, club or sport, and use it as an outlet.

Whenever I’m dealing with a stressful sitch, I vent to my BFF. Talk to your bestie about how bad you're feelin' just to get some of it off your chest. You can also talk things over with an older cousin, sib or a trusted family member like an aunt or grandparent. They probably have useful insight into this sitch and can tell you a little bit more about why your dad's upset and why the baby won't live with you.

It also might help if you and your family seek counseling to effectively deal with these issues. A therapist can help your family cope with all the feelings and emotions you are facing right now. A pro will also allow you to fully understand the situation so you don’t feel so out of the loop! I know you probably have a lot of anger and confusion pent up. Don't be afraid to let it out!

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by Jackie E. | 2/1/2016