Ask Lucky: My BFF Passed Away

A few weeks ago, my best friend passed away. She was only 13. I miss her so much. When I first heard, I cried all night. At school, some people cared but didn’t take it too seriously.


It seems everyone has forgotten about her death, but I can’t. How can I feel better and move on with my life?


I’m so sorry about your friend. It’s hard to lose someone you are close to. Don’t expect to feel better right away. Be patient. You are allowed to be sad and miss her—no matter what other people are doing. It’s all part of grieving. Remember all the great stuff you loved about her and all the fun you used to have.


Keep busy and do anything that takes your mind off the hurt—rent funny movies, go jogging, start a scrap book. If you are overwhelmed with pain and sadness, or need help sorting out your feelings, don’t hesitate to make an appointment with a school counselor or therapist. Sometimes just talking to someone can make you feel better.


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10/13/2009 7:00:00 AM
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