My boyfriend always talks about girls he thinks are hot. I know it’s normal for him to notice…but does he have to tell me?

He also told me he was flirting with this other girl. What gives?

BILL: It’s sort of like someone who goes to a restaurant and raves about the food at other places. Makes you want to ask, “If the food’s so great elsewhere, why are you here?” On the other hand, girls always say they want to know what’s on their BFs’ minds. Your dude tells you.

DAVE: Bill hits on a valid point. Girls say they want honesty, honesty, honesty, but when they actually get it they complain that it’s not what they wanted to hear. There are two possibilities in play here: 1) He thinks other girls are hot and flirts with them, or 2) he doesn’t really think other girls are hot and doesn’t flirt with them, but he wants you to think that so you’ll be jealous. Either way, your BF is doing you a big favor by letting you know he’s not the one for you since he has no regard for your feelings.

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10/17/2009 7:00:00 AM