I really want a cell phone, but my parents refuse. I’ve tried everything. They say they trust me but just don’t want me to have one.

How can I persuade them to get me one?

Pinpoint the precise reasons your parents don’t want you having a cellie. Are they worried you’ll spend time chatting or texting instead of doing homework? Do they want to track who’s calling you to make sure you stay out of trouble? Once you know their concerns, try to reach an agreement. Maybe you’ll only turn your cell on when you’re out (mention that they’ll always be able to reach you!), talk for a set amount of time per day or let your parents monitor who you’ve been talking to.

If you’re willing to compromise, your parents might come around. It’s possible, though, that they can’t fit it into their budget. If that’s the case, have patience and, for now, enjoy the feeling of not being connected 24/7.

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10/22/2009 7:00:00 AM