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lillyputla on 8/8/2010 9:59:53 PM
I survived camp and it was a blast!!! I'm actually considering to apply to work there next summer!!! Hows the trip to NY??? R u excited for school to be starting again or just upset for the summer to end?
airhead122 on 8/8/2010 12:14:53 AM
Your welcome! Try and keep up the good work every night before you go to sleep Even writing in your journal about your day helps. I do it!
lillyputla on 8/7/2010 11:36:02 AM
A lot of times, your dreams are based on what you think about that night. Instead of thinking about him, think about your friends, your crush, even SCHOOL. Or, you could read a book or magazine to get your mind off of him. Hope that helps!
lillyputla on 8/6/2010 1:39:27 PM
Hey! That's an odd dream you had there! What I would do is keep your mind off of him. Whenever you feel yourself pretending you're his sister, tell yourself "I am NOT his sister. That was a DREAM." The boy in your dream is kind of like a fictional character -- perfect, but definitely not real. Remember that the guy in real life is probably not at all like him when you dreamt about him.
lillyputla on 8/5/2010 10:58:44 PM
haha well your a good drawer. i unfortuantely suck at it...
i can draw a prettydarn good stick person
writing && singing are my talents. i fail at art lol. you seem pretty cool though (:
sillyheart17 on 8/5/2010 7:28:33 PM
thanks thats what i will probley do. this is gonna soud lame but i forgot where i posted my question. i looked where i thought it was but it was not there soud do you mind telling me where you found it?
thanks a million bagillion!
softballstar67 on 8/4/2010 6:58:17 PM
summerlover0116 on 8/3/2010 10:16:00 PM
Lol. Thanks! You too! I laughed sooo hard when i red that you're great t making noise! Haha!
Duffawuff on 8/3/2010 4:03:12 PM
thanks for the help (:
bytheway i loveeeee your icon thingy.. did you draw it yourself? its really good
sillyheart17 on 8/3/2010 2:13:20 PM
hey girl well its normal to have dreams about something like this! obviously he or your crush were on your mind that night so no prob there.
things like this will fade over time. its like a nightmare: your scared and freaked out the first couple of nights you have to go to bed, but in no time you forgot what the dream was even about! and your just fine.
so dont worry about it! before you know it itll just be faded like the rest of your dreams
summerlover0116 on 8/2/2010 9:23:11 PM
Girl, don't be afraid to ask me ANY questions, no matter how dumb you think they are. Trust me, this is totally normal! I always wish that I had an older sis, and one of my friends, who is 19 (I am 11, too) is pretty darn close.
I think you just have to shake it. You'll get over it in time. Maybe next time you talk to your crush, you could ask him about his bro. Ask him about the pros and cons (mainly cons). The reason is that when he tells you the cons, you'll be pretty glad that he's not your brother.
BTW, I saw on your profile that you have a boyfriend?
Jgard224 on 8/2/2010 8:46:09 PM
same just been here n there lol so wat do u wanna talk bout
Chiclets_98 on 8/2/2010 6:48:29 PM
Not really lol
Jgard224 on 8/2/2010 8:56:29 AM
hey watz up
Chiclets_98 on 8/1/2010 10:32:26 PM
heyyy, you asked a mod about this but they were busy, here's my thoughts, hope it helps!
Ok, so, this MIGHT sound a little weird but, I had a dream that my twin brother's best friend (my crush.) Yeah I had a dream that my crush's older brother was MY older brother and he was really nice, smart, cute, funny, lovable, and caring! He was like my BFF! In real life, he's 16 and I'm only 11. In my dream, he liked the things that I liked, he was friendly, and he was just PERFECT! But, I was on an airplane and I woke up because the plane had landed. Now, I wish that he really WAS my older brother! I keep pretending that he's my brother and it's CRAZY! Can you please help me get over this please? Thanks!
It seems like you wish you had a better brother, but think about all the awesome qualities your twin brother has, I'm sure your bro is pretty awesome, too. You don't need another one. <3 good luck!
cchick on 8/1/2010 9:41:35 PM
Hey, its not a problem we ALL jump to conclusions!
Cupcake1999 on 8/1/2010 7:58:12 PM
Well first of all why do you think the moment would be embarrising and awkward? And there family so you shouldn't feel that way! Maybe at first it will feel that way, but in the end you'll have an AWSOME time!
Cupcake1999 on 8/1/2010 1:04:55 PM
Hey, I'm back from Florida.
Jgard224 on 7/31/2010 1:54:31 PM
no problemo... tell me how the amusement park went!
puppyaddict13 on 7/29/2010 7:23:12 PM
Hey! No I'm not dating him… but I think he's going to ask me soon!
hurleycat on 7/29/2010 5:22:24 PM
i would just try and have fun at the amusment park and enjoy the day!
natalieisyourmod on 7/29/2010 4:28:09 PM
Yep! I like him and he likes me! <3
hurleycat on 7/29/2010 12:36:28 AM
hey dont stress about it! its the amusement park!!! just have fun.enjoy it.have fun at the amusement park!!!
puppyaddict13 on 7/28/2010 11:19:16 PM
Hi, I am so sorry but, TSM is just for tough stuff questions. So I won't be able to answer you. Try asking "cupcake1999" She loves to give advice of any kind so she should be able to help you.
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ToughStuffMods on 7/28/2010 10:08:43 PM
Wow she doesn't sound like a very nice person… I have to admit that I made the mistake of ditching a few friends to be popular and I can not tell you how much I regret that. It was soooo not worth it.
But on a happier note, I did meet a really cute, nice, sweet, kind, polite, respectful (need I say more?) guy!!! The one good thing thatcame from bein popular.
hurleycat on 7/28/2010 2:47:19 AM
I saw you asking about being popular. I hang out with the two popular girls at school and it isn't all that great. I'm going into seventh too and there is always drama surrounding those girls, which makes it hard to trust them. Be happy with the friends you have.
hurleycat on 7/27/2010 9:06:19 PM
Good I've been goin to da movies da mall da beach bowling hanging wid friends skateboarding u know da usall
Chiclets_98 on 7/25/2010 12:16:04 AM
It is like almost midnight and this is the last time I will be on here for 2 weeks. I just saw ur comment an wanted to respond one last time!!
The memory thing is a common guy thing so dont take it too personally!
Have fun in NY and talk to ya in 2 weeks!!!
airhead122 on 7/23/2010 11:52:11 PM
Hey! Mod is short for Moderator and that's my job, to moderate and check all the comments on the site to keep it safe and fun for you guys If you have a question about anything or need advice start your comment with "mod mod mod" and one of the moderators on duty will get back to you as soon as she can. Here's a link that might help you out too, http://www.girlslife.com/page/confuzzled-411.aspx
kpianoplayer on 7/23/2010 10:24:57 AM
Well you definitely have one thing right...long distance relationships rarely work out. On those slight occasions that they do, its after a couple has been together for a while and really and truely love each other.
Your best bet is to take this time while he is away to really think about if you like him or not. When he gets back in the fall you should have your answer and take it from there!
1. As I said before you are right about long distance, so that's not going to be an option.
2. You say you always fight? Are these like serious fights or just little things? You don't want to be with someone who you will just constantly butt heads with.
3. Sometimes you just have to take a risk. Always consider if it is worth it and if it is then if/when you break up at least you gave it a try. And messy break-ups usually only occur if one person can't let something go, so always just try and go with the flow in this relationship.
4. If he is a cheater, then definitely don't even attempt the long distance thing. That would give him to many chances. If something ends up happening in the fall then just be careful.
5. A self-centered jerk face? Is he, is he really? It may be coming off that way to you, but it could just be his way of trying to get your attention or getting you interested in the things he does.
6. It may not seem like you have time for each other right now, but if its meant to be you will make time. Whether its just a phone conversation or eating lunch together at school, it will work (only if you want it to!)
7. Your friends should only matter so much in your opinions about him. If you like him and he treats you right then that's all that matters. Consider why your friends don't like him. You could be surprised to learn that its just because they don't want you to get hurt.
8. He has an awful memory? I'm not quite sure I get this one, so let me know!
9. Everything should move at a pace that is comfortable for BOTH of you! Never let him pressure you into something that you're not ready for. Always have respect for yourself!
So, I hope that all of this helps you and I just want to let you know that I am leaving for camp Saturday, July 24th and will be gone until Saturday August 7th. This means I will be unavailable during this time so still check out my page for suggestions of other people if you need anything!!!
airhead122 on 7/22/2010 11:48:14 PM
thx so hows ur summer been
Chiclets_98 on 7/22/2010 10:50:28 PM
Thanks! I guess you're right! I just don't know what to do at this age. What I mean is that I can't wear make-up, drive, date, or anything like that! What can I 'do' that's different?
Jgard224 on 7/22/2010 10:43:41 PM
Those are some good ideas! I already met someone famous, so if I wrote that down, I would immediatley cross it off. Plus, I guess when you're 13, then you can't go outside too much without makeup and you have to worry about a bunch of other stuff like boys.
Jgard224 on 7/19/2010 8:45:17 AM
Your sis is right! Those are some fun things to do!
I don't really like being 11. I feel like I'm not a teenager, but I'm not a kid and it annoys me. I want to be 12 SOOOOO much!
Jgard224 on 7/18/2010 10:20:58 AM
yeah i love the east coast
allieloveee on 7/18/2010 12:39:29 AM
All I gotta say is SMMMMOOOOOTTTTHHHH! And I can see exactly where ur coming from with the klutzy thing cuz I'm the exact same way!!! Take car of ur finger!
airhead122 on 7/17/2010 11:19:59 PM
hey i like ur profoile u sound like a kool chic
Chiclets_98 on 7/16/2010 11:51:19 PM
um im not really sure if I like it or not yet, but it is definitely different. I kind of like the new set up with the categories tho
airhead122 on 7/14/2010 11:57:53 PM
Exactly, girl! It will work especially well if you do it in the car, because then there won't be any awkwardness (that is prob not a word, lol) when you want to have fun at the amusement park!
I'm 11, but I'm turning 12 in February.
Jgard224 on 7/14/2010 12:02:09 PM
thats so cool. i can't imagine living in sooo many places. i love california(:
allieloveee on 7/14/2010 2:01:03 AM
i love how u always tell me to comment back =P
ok did u know that they were gunna change the site? cuz when i came on at like 11:50 on 7/13 it was normal and now its 12:19 on 7/14 and its koo koo bananas!!!
airhead122 on 7/14/2010 12:19:19 AM
I'm allison. i go by alli though and i just turned 15 july 6th and i'm from california.
allieloveee on 7/13/2010 12:42:33 AM
We have SO much in common! Your cousins are from CA, and so are mine! Your cousins are from San Diego, and so am I! You were born on Feb. 26th, and I was born on Feb 24th! Cool!
Jgard224 on 7/12/2010 9:03:46 PM
Also, I'm from San Diego! It's a FUN place!
I thought of more advice-ASK A LOT OF QUESTIONS! It will spark up a convo which will spark up more and more! Also, compliment them on their clothes, skills, or whatever! Everybody loves a good compliment!
I hope I helped!
Jgard224 on 7/12/2010 9:02:41 PM
That is so cool that you drew your icon! I have cousins from CA, too, because I am also from CA!
Ask them questions-how is CA? How is school going? Just ask, ask, ask. With my cousins, it's awkward for like 5 minutes, and then we are totally into the conversation.
I hope I helped!
Jgard224 on 7/12/2010 9:00:49 PM
heyy cool profile check mine out
allieloveee on 7/12/2010 8:05:09 PM
You can always talk to your sis, too.
I love your icon, BTW!
Jgard224 on 7/12/2010 4:15:28 PM
Exactly! You go, girl! Be sure to wait a few days or if she's done something wrong to say it, though, because people can change.
Jgard224 on 7/12/2010 7:02:48 AM
Ok so is itthat you are on and off about him? Or is he on and off about you? If it's you and only because he teases you or trys and picks fights, I have semi help. If it's just tesing and picking fights about stupid little things then it could still be his way of showing you that he likes you. I know I know, boys work in weird ways!!! But, in my experience when they make fun of you it's their way of sayng I like you and I feel comfortable around you. So, if you like him when he's nice to you and then he asks you out, I say why not give it a try. It is taking a risk and all that, but if it works it's all good and if it doesn't you can most likely go back to the way you are now!!!
I really hope this helps!!!!
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