Hi!! I heard you give good I advice so I ask you this; I am 12 do you think I am too young for kissing? I already have...we aren't taking things fast we are a really good couple...we both think so..and how do I tell my mom/dad about us kissing and stuff...i feel so ackward..help!

lilmizzjo on 8/9/2010 4:07:21 PM

Thank u so much for the help its nice to know I can always ask for help on gl if u ever need any thing I am here for u chicky!! Thanks so much luz sydney

sydy_kidy on 8/8/2010 10:00:14 PM

hey guppie275!
it totally stinks that things didnt work out right away with your BF! Its cool that you want to give him a second chance but like you said, you cant just jump back into it, because some of the bad things he did arent just going to go away if you simply restart the relationship. My suggestion is, if you and him are both interested in trying your relationship again, i would have a talk with him first. Make sure it is just the two of you and have a very serious and honest conversation with him. Start off with explaining to him how you feel about him. So, you could say something like: so, i know that i still like you and you still like me but there were some things that happened when we were going out last time that made me really upset and maybe there were some things that happened that made the relationship not work for you, but i think we should talk about what we though went wrong the last time we went out so that if we want to try again it will work better this time" Notice that through all of that i didnt accuse him of anything. Using "I" statements will leave him feeling calmer and less angry so that after that little opening you can tell him how it really hurt you when he seemed to act different with you when he was with his friends. to bring up the subject of cheating, you have to be veeeeerrry careful and DEFINATELY use "I" statements here to avoid a screaming match. Explain to him honestly that you were really really hurt to hear rumours from other people that he was with other girls while going out with you. Let him explain, and acccept it. If you want a relationship you have to earn each others trust. Now, very importantly, let him have a turn to talk and tell you what he thought of the relationship and any problems he came to. Reply as maturely, calmly and honestly as you can and then go from there. Hope i helped you out girl! Let me know if you have any other questions!
Lots of Love
Ellie

hugatree95 on 8/4/2010 9:18:28 PM

hi. well u see bout one month ago my bf and i borke up. it was kinda a bad one too. there were rumors he cheated. and he was totally different with me by his firends. it really made me mad. now he likes me again... and i like him too. but the bad things are BAD and i cant get over them. i want to go out with him again buttttt.... who says things will changs? any advice?

-The Owner Of A Lonley Heart

guppie275 on 8/3/2010 11:28:38 PM

hey reeltreble!
I dance at NiRiain School of Irish Dance in PA. I am in Crav Grad/ Ard Grad ( championship level) in CRN. Do you dance for CRG or CRN and what level are you?
Lots of Love
Ellie

hugatree95 on 8/1/2010 5:26:47 PM

Hey i irish dance too. where do you dance? what level are you?

reeltreble on 7/30/2010 9:30:41 PM

do you think it's ok to take naps especially if you don't have time to sleep at night?

maddiemaddiemoomo on 7/29/2010 10:30:31 AM

Hey, well ok here it goes:

In the summer going into 4th grade, my two besties ignored me all summer. They even got their moms in on it, so when ever I called nobody picked up. It hurt, bad. So now, I am going into 6th grade, and all is well with them. But I never really found out WHY they did it. Well I know WHY, but they never really gave me any details. It's because that May/June before school let out, I branched out and made new friends, and didn't sit with them at lunch anymore. But I still TALKED to them, it's not like I shut them out or anything, I just branched out. SO now, I want details, but I dont know how to bring it up! Could you help me???Thanks so much!

DontStopDreaming on 7/24/2010 12:43:33 PM

The whole school year, this popular guy liked me. I never thought much of it until later. In January, I found out that I was moving to another state. Ugh! Then, in May, the same guy told my friend his feelings for me, and that he felt so good when he was around me. I admitted to myself, and to him, that i really did feel the same way. We tried it. I probably would be dead if it wasn't for him. I knew that I was losing everything, and I thought that I wouldn't lose him.

Yes, there's a bad part to this. Two days before I moved, he broke up with me. I realized how much I was in love with him, and still am. When the break-up was fresh, he still talked to me, and he even cried because he missed me so much. But recently, he told my friend that he's over me, and doesn't want to talk to me cause he'll fall for me. He hasn't answered since then. I'm going back for 2 weeks, should I hang out with him? He said he would want to hang out with me. I'm heart-broken and confused, and I don't know what to do with myself without this kid. Does he still care or not?

Please please help me!!!!!!!!!

skatellama on 7/17/2010 10:42:52 PM

hey, i have a white and yellow stuff in my underwear! what do i do ? what is it?? i have it when i am not on my peirod

ccsierra on 7/11/2010 3:29:59 PM

Hey girl
so ok heres the deal. there's this guy, austin, and i've fallen completly head oveer heals for him. the problem is..im in 7th grade he's in 6th. i know what your thinking it's not right. i just like him soo much. he likes me to soo yea. what do u think? should i try to go out with him and see how things go or should i just leave him for good?
Thanks. and plz be honest
Emdance

Emdance on 7/9/2010 11:33:28 PM

MOD MOD MOD hey!! i need advice(duh) im trying 2 get fit!! so far, ive just made my stomach smaller over the last couple months. ive been slacking off a bit. anyway, i just started a new workout. im gonna run on the treadmill for 20 minutes and do 8 sets of 20 crunches, 4 sets of 25 squats, 30 pushups, and 4 sets of 20 side squeezes( squeezing my sides) ok, here are my questions:
1.) does this sound like a good workout?
2.) do you think that the squeezes will b just as effective as side crunches? its hard for me to do side crunches.
3.) is there anyway for me to reduce food cravings? ive been pretty hungry lately.
and 4.), you have to burn 3500 calories to lose one pound. i wanna lose at least 10 pounds by the time school starts(i think) im not sure how much i wanna lose cuz im going by how i look, not by my weight. do u think i could lose 2 pounds a week? that means that i would hav 2 cut and burn 7000 calories a week!! is that 2 much??

karategirl78 on 7/7/2010 8:42:40 PM

hey dragon queen!
yes it is possible that you will get your period near the time of your mom and aunt. However, the physical signs of your body will give you a better clue as to when it will come. In other words, you could get your period soon at 11, but without any other signs of puberty, its highly unlikely that you will get it soon. For example, some signs of getting you period are, breasts developing, pubic hair, clear or white discharge in your undies, and underarm hair. Each of these signs are usually present for about 1 to 2 years before you will get your period. So, if you already have those signs and your mom got her period at 11 then your probably close. If you dont have these signs yet then it will probably be a couple more years before you start puberty and get your period, but dont worry thats perfectly normal! Let me know if you have any other questions!
Lots of Love
Ellie

hugatree95 on 7/1/2010 9:18:27 AM

hey lolallthetime!
Wow girly! you have a TON going on here! what you need to do first is organize what is going on. from there you can decide what is actually a problem and then from there how to fix your problems. Soo... yoou used to like alex and kelsy told him that even though she likes him as well. now, you just want to be friends with alex, kelsy wants to have a relationship with him, he wants to have a relationship with may, but he also flirts with kelsy. So from here we decide what is actually a problem? well, a problem is that alex is flirting with kelsy even though he likes may. and another problem would be alex may think you like him still even though you dont. So to fix these problem you need to have a calm conversation with alex, it can be over texting or calling of that makes you comfortable and let him know, gently and maturely, that you think there is a ton going on right now and you just want to set everything straight. tell him that you know how great of guy he is and that you would really like to just be friends. If he has questions about this be understanding and answer them honestly. Then also explain to alex that kelsy has feelings for him, but you know that he and may have feelings for each other. Ask him how he feels about kelsy and may so that you understand his point of view. If at any point in this conversation he seems upset or confused take a timeout and re-explain things for him or answer questions he has. this will ensure there are no misunderstandings and no one gets hurt. Remember, the goal here is to sort things out calmly with minimal drama Good luck girl! Let me know if you have any other questions!
Lots of Love
Ellie

hugatree95 on 6/29/2010 9:31:49 PM

i luv HOUSE and watermalon lip gloss
imma scorpio too and i luv your icon
are you really irish cause i am

xoxoxoxoxox mackenzie

lion'n'othello rose on 6/28/2010 1:53:53 PM

Hey! I need great advice, STAT!

My profile is not visible, so could you reply here? thnx

Okay, so I really liked this guy. We'll call him Alex. My bff, lets name her Kelsie, found out that I liked Alex. So Kelsie started talking to him about asking me out... Later on all three of us hung out and I realized that I only liked Alex as a friend... So I told Kelsie and she sent him an email saying that I "Wasn't ready for a relationship". Now, Kelsie likes Alex. So Kelsie made me talk to him and find out if he likes her and to see if Alex would ask Kelsie out. Kelsie did all of that for me, so I thought Why not? Now, Alex is really confused, and he's flirting with Kelsie all the time, when he says he can't ask Kelsie out because there's this other girl, May, who likes him and he likes her... And Alex and me aren't getting along, and I feel like I've been using people. I feel really bad... How do I clean up this mess???

Thanks sooooooo much, sorry its so long...

lol:)allthetime on 6/28/2010 10:41:09 AM

hey karategirl78!
There are lots of ways to get a guys attention or strike up a conversation with guys! First and foremost however, when you do all of this you have to remember to be yourself, because otherwise you'll be in a big mess later. I would suggest bringing ONE of your girls the first time just incase it gets awkward. Make sure the guy is in a group of people not just standing there by himself because that will really put the pressure on you girls. When you approach him just be calm and causal and just say hey hows it going? introduce yourselves and then go right into a conversation of do you understand the science homework? or are you going to the basketball game this weekend? something like that. The ONLY reason why you have a girl buddy with you is in case of a super awkward situation that she can bail you out of, make sure your talking to the guy and not whispering and giggling with the girl. Then once you know each other you can suddely flirt by playing with his hair every once in a while sending him texts with smiley faces something like that, just dont overdue it! Good luck girlie and let me know if you have any other questions!
Lots of Love
Ellie

hugatree95 on 6/22/2010 8:33:45 AM

PLEASE READ THIS!!!!
hey, karategirl78 here. whats a good way to get a gus attention?

karategirl78 on 6/21/2010 7:24:18 PM

MODMODMODMODMOD

So, at the beginning of the year I met a really nice girl. She became my best friend. Then...she backstabbed me. She told the whole grade who I liked and everything! Now she is trying to still be best friends with me, and I try to just ignore her but I can't. It is hard to just ignore someone when they say your name 50 times really loud. What can I do to make her stop pestering me?

bellagml on 6/21/2010 3:42:06 PM

how long have you been on GL? (if you had other pros, how long in total and how long for this pro?) sorry i am just curious!

Olivia T. on 6/13/2010 6:28:25 PM

Thanks. You really helped me today actually, i got a drunk phone call from them, and i just hung up, because they are a bad influence..
But, my BGF mike said that if i ingnore them and sort of play hard-to-get theyre just gonnna try harder to get me. Its really hard cause im llike turning down the hottest nice guys ive met. I know its illeagal to drink, and i dont, i only did it the one time. But, i feel stilll really bad cause neal talked me inot it, i mean, if he talked me into that, he could talk me inot a lot of stuff even worse.,,, idk, i guess i just like the attention, which makes me feel like garbage

Albinii<3 on 6/9/2010 6:30:52 PM

Hey,
I think it is sorta crazy that I got into an argument with mileycalyx, I don't know her and if she is reading this I want to apologize for upsetting her. I think that I let myself get territorial with a bunch of different girls and showed it with her... I hope to redirect people to you if I can't answer something (hasn't happened yet) with your permission.

Olivia T. on 6/8/2010 10:08:12 PM

I NEED HELP PLEASE!

I'm in 8th grade, i'm considered 'hot' to like older boys...blonde,pretty, thin, tall, funny, and def. popular. Im only friends with the boys in my grade, i think nothing of them otherwise, like i dont like any of them, just friends. I dont have any other interest in them cause theyre all jerks haha. So, i decided "why not try older boys?"... long story short a reallllly hot seinor boy, Pat (he is considered a womanizer) has been honking at me and hollering at me and some friends in the hallways. Well his friend, Neal, is really cute too and a hot lifegaurd, started texting me. We talked all the time.... i thought everything was fine...
then he got me to drink, he got me drunk twice.
i only did it cause he and pat, are really really hot. now they have bragged to all of theur friends that they got a 'fine 8th grader to drink'. my friends older brother said that they have this game were they try to get 8th graders to drink, to train them or something, and then they have sex with them over the summer or when they copme back from college.
i dont what to do, cause theyre soooo hot
PLEASE HELPP! o have no one else to ask!

Albinii<3 on 6/8/2010 4:02:08 PM

Hey!
Im Sorry About What has Been Going On
It Was A Miss Understanding
Lets All Give Advice Together
If You ever Have Some Advice Or Questions You Cant Cant Answer Or Need Help With Please dont Hesitate To Visit My Profile
Im Here For You Girly!
With Love Like Its A Gift from Above XOXOXOXOXO
Liza

mileycalyx on 6/7/2010 3:57:16 PM

Heyyy Dollface,
Look Im Sorry
However This Is No Reson To Be Rude And Evil
Its All Just A Missunderstanding
MMkayyy
Toodles,
L*E*X

mileycalyx on 6/7/2010 11:39:22 AM