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Hi!! I heard you give good I advice so I ask you this; I am 12 do you think I am too young for kissing? I already have...we aren't taking things fast we are a really good couple...we both think so..and how do I tell my mom/dad about us kissing and stuff...i feel so ackward..help!
lilmizzjo on 8/9/2010 4:07:21 PM
Hey ive always been the chubby one and i cant wear bikinis at all! even my family says on how i look! its like a hard cold slap. they dont understand!!!!! my friends are allskinny and it makes me feel bad. pls pls pls pls PLS help!
- ms chubby
CoolGal389 on 8/9/2010 9:37:27 AM
Thank u so much for the help its nice to know I can always ask for help on gl if u ever need any thing I am here for u chicky!! Thanks so much luz sydney
sydy_kidy on 8/8/2010 10:00:14 PM
Hey chicky I need some help with guys...ok so this is my story..almost 2 years ago me and this guy started going out we dated on and off... I really did love him even if we didn't always stay together:/ I knew he had sex with a few girls but I didn't let it get to me as I stood my ground and didn't give him that he cheated on me by having sex with this girl I found out and we broke up a few months passed and he told me he changed so we got back together.. I never could really trust him so 2 weeks passed and I dumped him he had gfs and didn't want any thing to do with me but a few weeks ago he wanted me back even tho he had a gf he wanted me to kiss him so I said nooo I started to like this guy and he is really sweet nice and treats me good I really like him but I love the other guy am I so wrong to be with this new guy?
sydy_kidy on 8/7/2010 11:56:46 PM
it totally stinks that things didnt work out right away with your BF! Its cool that you want to give him a second chance but like you said, you cant just jump back into it, because some of the bad things he did arent just going to go away if you simply restart the relationship. My suggestion is, if you and him are both interested in trying your relationship again, i would have a talk with him first. Make sure it is just the two of you and have a very serious and honest conversation with him. Start off with explaining to him how you feel about him. So, you could say something like: so, i know that i still like you and you still like me but there were some things that happened when we were going out last time that made me really upset and maybe there were some things that happened that made the relationship not work for you, but i think we should talk about what we though went wrong the last time we went out so that if we want to try again it will work better this time" Notice that through all of that i didnt accuse him of anything. Using "I" statements will leave him feeling calmer and less angry so that after that little opening you can tell him how it really hurt you when he seemed to act different with you when he was with his friends. to bring up the subject of cheating, you have to be veeeeerrry careful and DEFINATELY use "I" statements here to avoid a screaming match. Explain to him honestly that you were really really hurt to hear rumours from other people that he was with other girls while going out with you. Let him explain, and acccept it. If you want a relationship you have to earn each others trust. Now, very importantly, let him have a turn to talk and tell you what he thought of the relationship and any problems he came to. Reply as maturely, calmly and honestly as you can and then go from there. Hope i helped you out girl! Let me know if you have any other questions!
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hugatree95 on 8/4/2010 9:18:28 PM
thank you soooooo much
your advice helped me a lot
iluvbasketball444 on 8/4/2010 12:48:24 PM
hi. well u see bout one month ago my bf and i borke up. it was kinda a bad one too. there were rumors he cheated. and he was totally different with me by his firends. it really made me mad. now he likes me again... and i like him too. but the bad things are BAD and i cant get over them. i want to go out with him again buttttt.... who says things will changs? any advice?
-The Owner Of A Lonley Heart
guppie275 on 8/3/2010 11:28:38 PM
im so confused
so i like this guy, and hes a close guy friend. supposedly, he likes me back. we flirt, and have fun together, and everyone says we make a great couple. but im kind of stumped. he wont ask me out. and im too scared to ask him.
can you help, or give me some advice on what to do? thanks
kennygirl on 8/3/2010 9:40:07 PM
I dance at NiRiain School of Irish Dance in PA. I am in Crav Grad/ Ard Grad ( championship level) in CRN. Do you dance for CRG or CRN and what level are you?
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hugatree95 on 8/1/2010 5:26:47 PM
Hey i like your profile!
chlojo98 on 8/1/2010 4:19:16 PM
Hey i irish dance too. where do you dance? what level are you?
reeltreble on 7/30/2010 9:30:41 PM
Nice profile! (I love House too!)
Samocin97 on 7/30/2010 9:26:26 AM
do you think it's ok to take naps especially if you don't have time to sleep at night?
maddiemaddiemoomo on 7/29/2010 10:30:31 AM
ok lately i have been very unhappy with the way I look and have become uncomfortable even just wearing a bikini or a tighter shirt i feel like all of my friends are skinnier than me and when they talk about being fat it feels like a slap in the face i never feel pretty either so i was wondering if you had any tips to help me lose weight and boost my self esteem.
iluvbasketball444 on 7/28/2010 12:59:57 AM
Hey, well ok here it goes:
In the summer going into 4th grade, my two besties ignored me all summer. They even got their moms in on it, so when ever I called nobody picked up. It hurt, bad. So now, I am going into 6th grade, and all is well with them. But I never really found out WHY they did it. Well I know WHY, but they never really gave me any details. It's because that May/June before school let out, I branched out and made new friends, and didn't sit with them at lunch anymore. But I still TALKED to them, it's not like I shut them out or anything, I just branched out. SO now, I want details, but I dont know how to bring it up! Could you help me???Thanks so much!
DontStopDreaming on 7/24/2010 12:43:33 PM
Im so sorry for everything your going through girl! I definately know what a broken heart feels like and in no way shape or form is it fun! When you go back for a couple weeks i do suggest you hang out with him. It seems to me that he does still care but he is trying to force himself out of the relationship to avoid the pain of loosing you. When you hang out with him you should have a long, serious, private conversation where you two discuss how you really feel about each other and also talk about how you think you should handle the relationship once you leave again. There's pretty much 2 options: you could either disconnnect from him completely and trust that you will eventually move on, OR you could try to maintain a relationship/friendship through phonecalls, skype, letters, texting, and sometimes visits. Its up to you two to try and decide what will work best for yo but you have to both be in agreement. and if the option you choose doesnt seem to work once your back home, try the other one. I also suggest that you "try out" your plan. if you go with disconnecting.., well i wouldnt talk to him or come in contact with him for the rest of your trip to make leaving easier. But if you choose option 2 then i would suggest going maybe 2 days of your trip there to only talk to him on the phone or text or skype or whatever, just basically pretend your living at your new house to get a feel for how it is going to be. Good luck girlie, i know its a tough situation and im always here if you have any other questions or just need someone to talk to!
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hugatree95 on 7/18/2010 12:56:03 PM
The whole school year, this popular guy liked me. I never thought much of it until later. In January, I found out that I was moving to another state. Ugh! Then, in May, the same guy told my friend his feelings for me, and that he felt so good when he was around me. I admitted to myself, and to him, that i really did feel the same way. We tried it. I probably would be dead if it wasn't for him. I knew that I was losing everything, and I thought that I wouldn't lose him.
Yes, there's a bad part to this. Two days before I moved, he broke up with me. I realized how much I was in love with him, and still am. When the break-up was fresh, he still talked to me, and he even cried because he missed me so much. But recently, he told my friend that he's over me, and doesn't want to talk to me cause he'll fall for me. He hasn't answered since then. I'm going back for 2 weeks, should I hang out with him? He said he would want to hang out with me. I'm heart-broken and confused, and I don't know what to do with myself without this kid. Does he still care or not?
Please please help me!!!!!!!!!
skatellama on 7/17/2010 10:42:52 PM
Hey, hugatree! Thank you so much for the advice! You are reallly good at it. Almost sounds like you have been through my same exact situation. Well, anyways, thank you. And I will talk to her.
bellagml on 7/12/2010 10:10:59 AM
hey, i have a white and yellow stuff in my underwear! what do i do ? what is it?? i have it when i am not on my peirod
ccsierra on 7/11/2010 3:29:59 PM
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kimmistar95 on 7/10/2010 1:58:10 PM
so ok heres the deal. there's this guy, austin, and i've fallen completly head oveer heals for him. the problem is..im in 7th grade he's in 6th. i know what your thinking it's not right. i just like him soo much. he likes me to soo yea. what do u think? should i try to go out with him and see how things go or should i just leave him for good?
Thanks. and plz be honest
Emdance on 7/9/2010 11:33:28 PM
I used to have a friend that we had been friends for 10 years . Then she started saying bad stuff about me and lieing to me . and i quit being her friend.Now when ever my dad and me are driving past her house i really miss being her friend,my parents dont know we are not friends (only my Best friend knows). How do i get over not being her friend ?
BSC98 on 7/9/2010 7:20:12 PM
MOD MOD MOD hey!! i need advice(duh) im trying 2 get fit!! so far, ive just made my stomach smaller over the last couple months. ive been slacking off a bit. anyway, i just started a new workout. im gonna run on the treadmill for 20 minutes and do 8 sets of 20 crunches, 4 sets of 25 squats, 30 pushups, and 4 sets of 20 side squeezes( squeezing my sides) ok, here are my questions:
1.) does this sound like a good workout?
2.) do you think that the squeezes will b just as effective as side crunches? its hard for me to do side crunches.
3.) is there anyway for me to reduce food cravings? ive been pretty hungry lately.
and 4.), you have to burn 3500 calories to lose one pound. i wanna lose at least 10 pounds by the time school starts(i think) im not sure how much i wanna lose cuz im going by how i look, not by my weight. do u think i could lose 2 pounds a week? that means that i would hav 2 cut and burn 7000 calories a week!! is that 2 much??
karategirl78 on 7/7/2010 8:42:40 PM
Hey! Yeah, I do need a little help on that.... How often should I change it and like which ones should I buy? thanks!
grace2985 on 7/5/2010 1:20:13 AM
hey dragon queen!
yes it is possible that you will get your period near the time of your mom and aunt. However, the physical signs of your body will give you a better clue as to when it will come. In other words, you could get your period soon at 11, but without any other signs of puberty, its highly unlikely that you will get it soon. For example, some signs of getting you period are, breasts developing, pubic hair, clear or white discharge in your undies, and underarm hair. Each of these signs are usually present for about 1 to 2 years before you will get your period. So, if you already have those signs and your mom got her period at 11 then your probably close. If you dont have these signs yet then it will probably be a couple more years before you start puberty and get your period, but dont worry thats perfectly normal! Let me know if you have any other questions!
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hugatree95 on 7/1/2010 9:18:27 AM
I need advice on my period (duh)
So, my mom and my aunties got their periods at 11.
I just tured 11 last month, and I`m wondering when
the signs are gonna show up. Is it true that I can
get my period at 11 too? If so, how long would it be until it shows up?
PLEASE ANSWER THIS!!! IM VERY CURIOUS!!
Dragon_Queen on 6/30/2010 10:48:23 PM
Wow girly! you have a TON going on here! what you need to do first is organize what is going on. from there you can decide what is actually a problem and then from there how to fix your problems. Soo... yoou used to like alex and kelsy told him that even though she likes him as well. now, you just want to be friends with alex, kelsy wants to have a relationship with him, he wants to have a relationship with may, but he also flirts with kelsy. So from here we decide what is actually a problem? well, a problem is that alex is flirting with kelsy even though he likes may. and another problem would be alex may think you like him still even though you dont. So to fix these problem you need to have a calm conversation with alex, it can be over texting or calling of that makes you comfortable and let him know, gently and maturely, that you think there is a ton going on right now and you just want to set everything straight. tell him that you know how great of guy he is and that you would really like to just be friends. If he has questions about this be understanding and answer them honestly. Then also explain to alex that kelsy has feelings for him, but you know that he and may have feelings for each other. Ask him how he feels about kelsy and may so that you understand his point of view. If at any point in this conversation he seems upset or confused take a timeout and re-explain things for him or answer questions he has. this will ensure there are no misunderstandings and no one gets hurt. Remember, the goal here is to sort things out calmly with minimal drama Good luck girl! Let me know if you have any other questions!
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hugatree95 on 6/29/2010 9:31:49 PM
Hey Girl I Need Some Advice on A Guy, Ok, Well,
I Have Liked Him for About 2 Years, But We Never Really Talk Much, We Have before, He Know My Best Friend I Tried Asking Him Out once Didn,t Go So Well Long Story, Anyway, Now I Can't Stop Thinking About Him! Everytime I Think i,m Over Him He Keeps Coming Right Back into My Head And I Like Him again.... By the way I Sent Him And Message Asking Him Out He Didn't Say No He Just Never Sent
One Back With An Answer Guess he Though he Didn't know Me That well, I Saw Him Again yesterday, And Every Time I Think i,m Going To Talk To Him I See Him And I Back Out!! I'm too Shy to Talk to Him!! We Just Never Talk he doesn't Talk To Me And I,m To Shy To Talk To Him, what Should I Do?????? I Can,t Keep Backing out Of Talking To him!! Ill Never Get To Know Him That Way, Am I The only one With This problem? I Can,t Stand It When I Talk To him i,m afraid he's just gonna Stare at Me While I do And I CLam Up! ANd I Don,t Really have Anything To Say To Him, Is another Problem He's Popular And he Is Usually With his Friends or Something I don't Wanna Just go Up to Him And Randomly Say Something In Front Of His Friends... And I,m pretty Sure he Know I Like him Because Someone told someone else And U Know How That goes,Will it look Obvious if i Talk to Him Or Does he Think i,m Stuck up Is The Reason I Never Talk to Him?????????? Thanks!!sorry about Writing U This Novel!! LOL
colorful1 on 6/28/2010 5:14:58 PM
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lion'n'othello rose on 6/28/2010 1:53:53 PM
hey lolallthetime i know im not hugatree95 but i went through alot of this type of stuff with an old, ex-friend (we didn't stop being friends because of a situtation like this it is a long story but anyway) best thing to do is ask your friend "kelise" if you can tell your other friend/not friend "alex" the whole truth if you do that then that should clear the air and if he asks more questions tell him to ask your friend "kelise" but if "kelise" says she don't want you to then ask what you can tell "alex" and what you can't and from that info tell him what has been going on that should clear the air for good and then if he is still not like totally bein your friend then maybe you guys weren't meant to be friends
**hope that helps some**
lion'n'othello rose on 6/28/2010 1:48:58 PM
Hey! I need great advice, STAT!
My profile is not visible, so could you reply here? thnx
Okay, so I really liked this guy. We'll call him Alex. My bff, lets name her Kelsie, found out that I liked Alex. So Kelsie started talking to him about asking me out... Later on all three of us hung out and I realized that I only liked Alex as a friend... So I told Kelsie and she sent him an email saying that I "Wasn't ready for a relationship". Now, Kelsie likes Alex. So Kelsie made me talk to him and find out if he likes her and to see if Alex would ask Kelsie out. Kelsie did all of that for me, so I thought Why not? Now, Alex is really confused, and he's flirting with Kelsie all the time, when he says he can't ask Kelsie out because there's this other girl, May, who likes him and he likes her... And Alex and me aren't getting along, and I feel like I've been using people. I feel really bad... How do I clean up this mess???
Thanks sooooooo much, sorry its so long...
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ravensugar on 6/23/2010 9:57:12 AM
There are lots of ways to get a guys attention or strike up a conversation with guys! First and foremost however, when you do all of this you have to remember to be yourself, because otherwise you'll be in a big mess later. I would suggest bringing ONE of your girls the first time just incase it gets awkward. Make sure the guy is in a group of people not just standing there by himself because that will really put the pressure on you girls. When you approach him just be calm and causal and just say hey hows it going? introduce yourselves and then go right into a conversation of do you understand the science homework? or are you going to the basketball game this weekend? something like that. The ONLY reason why you have a girl buddy with you is in case of a super awkward situation that she can bail you out of, make sure your talking to the guy and not whispering and giggling with the girl. Then once you know each other you can suddely flirt by playing with his hair every once in a while sending him texts with smiley faces something like that, just dont overdue it! Good luck girlie and let me know if you have any other questions!
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hugatree95 on 6/22/2010 8:33:45 AM
PLEASE READ THIS!!
hey, karategirl78 here. whats a good way to get a guys attention or strike up a convo with a guy??
karategirl78 on 6/21/2010 7:26:20 PM
PLEASE READ THIS!!!!
hey, karategirl78 here. whats a good way to get a gus attention?
karategirl78 on 6/21/2010 7:24:18 PM
Hey! You said you give great advice, and I kinda need some right now =p. So, I'm an introvert, and need to be alone some of the time. I have a friend who doesn't get this and expects me to call her every single night and hang out with her all the time. It's making me feel suffocated and I can't stand it. I really wanna know how to explain this without sounding like I'm totally ditching her. Thanks!
viasia21 on 6/21/2010 6:25:02 PM
So, at the beginning of the year I met a really nice girl. She became my best friend. Then...she backstabbed me. She told the whole grade who I liked and everything! Now she is trying to still be best friends with me, and I try to just ignore her but I can't. It is hard to just ignore someone when they say your name 50 times really loud. What can I do to make her stop pestering me?
bellagml on 6/21/2010 3:42:06 PM
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Olivia T. on 6/14/2010 12:34:33 AM
how long have you been on GL? (if you had other pros, how long in total and how long for this pro?) sorry i am just curious!
Olivia T. on 6/13/2010 6:28:25 PM
haven't heard from you in a while!
Olivia T. on 6/12/2010 9:30:40 PM
Thanks. You really helped me today actually, i got a drunk phone call from them, and i just hung up, because they are a bad influence..
But, my BGF mike said that if i ingnore them and sort of play hard-to-get theyre just gonnna try harder to get me. Its really hard cause im llike turning down the hottest nice guys ive met. I know its illeagal to drink, and i dont, i only did it the one time. But, i feel stilll really bad cause neal talked me inot it, i mean, if he talked me into that, he could talk me inot a lot of stuff even worse.,,, idk, i guess i just like the attention, which makes me feel like garbage
Albinii<3 on 6/9/2010 6:30:52 PM
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25noodles on 6/9/2010 5:45:16 PM
I think it is sorta crazy that I got into an argument with mileycalyx, I don't know her and if she is reading this I want to apologize for upsetting her. I think that I let myself get territorial with a bunch of different girls and showed it with her... I hope to redirect people to you if I can't answer something (hasn't happened yet) with your permission.
Olivia T. on 6/8/2010 10:08:12 PM
You give really good advice! Keep it up, sometimes people don't get the credit that they need for there efforts so here you go! I am glad you spoke up to people advertising on your space, it inspired me to too!
Olivia T. on 6/8/2010 5:09:18 PM
I NEED HELP PLEASE!
I'm in 8th grade, i'm considered 'hot' to like older boys...blonde,pretty, thin, tall, funny, and def. popular. Im only friends with the boys in my grade, i think nothing of them otherwise, like i dont like any of them, just friends. I dont have any other interest in them cause theyre all jerks haha. So, i decided "why not try older boys?"... long story short a reallllly hot seinor boy, Pat (he is considered a womanizer) has been honking at me and hollering at me and some friends in the hallways. Well his friend, Neal, is really cute too and a hot lifegaurd, started texting me. We talked all the time.... i thought everything was fine...
then he got me to drink, he got me drunk twice.
i only did it cause he and pat, are really really hot. now they have bragged to all of theur friends that they got a 'fine 8th grader to drink'. my friends older brother said that they have this game were they try to get 8th graders to drink, to train them or something, and then they have sex with them over the summer or when they copme back from college.
i dont what to do, cause theyre soooo hot
PLEASE HELPP! o have no one else to ask!
Albinii<3 on 6/8/2010 4:02:08 PM
Im Very Sorry
mileycalyx on 6/7/2010 4:31:00 PM
Im Sorry About What has Been Going On
It Was A Miss Understanding
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mileycalyx on 6/7/2010 3:57:16 PM
Im So Sorry About Everything That Has Happened
It Was All A Big Missunderstanding
We Can All Give Advice
I Hope We Can Move Past This And Become Friends
And If There Is ever Any Advice You Need Help With
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mileycalyx on 6/7/2010 3:44:18 PM
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However This Is No Reson To Be Rude And Evil
Its All Just A Missunderstanding
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