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Is my cuz in danger?

I have a cousin who’s a year younger than me that I'm worried about. She's dating a boy who's a couple years older than her...
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@anasquirrelygurl That relationship is TOTALLY inappropriate, and if they're still together next year, illegal. Have a talk with your cousin, and tell her that it would be good to break up with this boy and find a guy her age. As her cousin, it's your responsibility to make sure this boy is an overall good person, who respects her feelings. Wish her good luck for us!

Hayley & Bella

by Hayley_finnsessed on 8/18/2011 9:38:26 PM


I have the same problem with my cause but its differnt im 14 and shes only 13 but her boy friend is 17. My aunt haes her boy friend and im starting to think hes not so nice either. I Have never acually meet him because my cuz lives in a differnt state from me but im scared for her she comes to visit alot and on these visit she tells me how there make out alot and how she thinks there going to have sex soon. She told me this last year at frist i was really scared because she also told me she would sneak out at 12 midnight to see him but she never said they had sex after that, just tha they made out. I thought they would break up because shes 13 and all but this last time she came to visit she told me they had sex only like for a minute but now he thinks they should do it all the time. She also told me at this church lock in there going to there going to sneak away so they can do it again! I`m scraed i dont want her to get pregant but i dont want to tell on her either?

Hey! their relationship is pretty inappropriate. She is too young to be getting involved in this stuff. You should tell her mom what's going on. It's the right thing to do. simple as that.  
Helen S.

by anasquirrelygurl on 3/25/2011 4:52:47 PM


Dear Is my cuz in danger,
This is a tough situation girl. My advice is tell your mom even if your scared. Whoever you tell will more than likely understand why you were scared to tell her sooner. good luck! Smile Also I give great advice! On anything, school,friends,family... ect. So feel free to ask! Smile

K-Girl Smile

by kaylarocks2000 on 1/30/2011 10:31:50 PM


MODMOD I need some help. My older sister is 25 and I'm 13. She has a boyfriend that lives in California and we live near Iowa. Recently, I heard my mom and her talking, and my mom said,"Have you called the doctor for that thing?" and my Sis said yes, but it the appointment would b b4 her BF comes over for a visit so it wouldn't do much good. He is coming a few days before V-day. The doc she is seeing is for down there. When I asked her why she needed to see the doc, she told me not to worry about it. When I asked her BF what they were gonna do for V-day he said that if he told me, I wouldn't like it. And my mom asked my Sis if she was preparing for what they (my mom and Sis) and talked about for when her BF comes over. (BTW, he stays at our house with my Sis, sometimes alone when he comes) My Sis said yes and appeared sheepish. It seems like my Sis and her BF are gonna do it, in our own house! She isn't even married yet, and they havent gone out for a year, what I am to do?

Hey girlie! Well, I'm not sure what your sis has planned, but I'm sure it's nothing too crazy! Try not to worry too much about it! 
Marly Z.

by bee309 on 1/22/2011 5:02:52 PM


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by sstods on 1/17/2011 4:12:09 PM


MOD MOD MOD not to bother, but why when i want to see "what others see" on my profile, it says its not visible. ive had it for over a week, and the privacy isnt selected. whats up? thanks<3



Hey chickadee! Under "My Profile", make sure that "Keep My Profile Private" is NOT checked. It might still take a day or two to adjust to your new settings too Smile


Becca G.

by tweexoxo on 1/13/2011 6:39:18 PM


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by Ask Happy on 1/11/2011 10:01:21 PM


Hey Chicas!! This is your advice girl right here!!
My name is Kelly and I am in high school and I am great at giving girls like you advice. I have experienced all kinds of drama and problems with friends, family, and boys. Just name it, I can help you with anything!

So, just ask! Smile

by iamkellyrose on 1/9/2011 4:22:46 PM


Ok so my parents have been fighting a little over a year now (step dad and mom) all because my mom hangs out more with her friends than with us. Now my step dad is tired of it and he has been telling me that he's tired of it and if my mom doesn't clear up her "act" then he's moving out and that they're over. I'm upset by this because I've known my step dad since I was 5 (I'm 12 now) and that he's like a real dad to me, (My real dad passed when I was a baby) and I'm afraid to confront her because I'm afraid she'll get mad and think that my step dad put me up to it.
What should I do? I don't wanna lose the best "dad" I've ever had and I don't want them to break up, I also want my mom to hang out with us more.

Hey girlie! If you're upset with your Mom, don't be afraid to talk to her about it. Let her know that you want to spend more time with her. She won't know how you feel otherwise. Also, tell her how much you care for your Dad, and how you don't want to lose him.  
Marly Z.

by Randafanna2 on 1/8/2011 7:23:48 PM


Mod! Mod! Mod!
My dad doesn't really watch his health. He will always buy fatning ice cream. I say to stop buying it cause I don't like it, but I really do but I don't want him to eat it. He stopped buying it, but now he is buying klondike bars and eating them constantly! My family is buying a tredmill soon(I know that for sure)but I don't know if he is going to actually try to work out. I've tried many times to tell him not to eat certain stuff and he always says "thanks for caring! I'm going to start working out soon!" I can't stand to watch him let himself go down hill. I'm so scared that he willl have a heartattack. What should i do?

Hey! you're doing everything you can do. maybe you can work out with him as encouragement? 
Helen S.

by Themagpie on 1/2/2011 2:01:38 PM


mod mod mod
my bffs and i have heard about antrexia i dont eat much lunch at school due to ADHD meds i think that my frends (and bullys 2 me long story but i sit by them at lunch) think im trying to become anrexic i told them im not but i still think there worid can you help??

Hey girlie! This is a very important issue. If you think your medication is affecting your appetite, then you need to talk to your mom or a doctor about it.  
Marly Z.

by PS374249 on 1/1/2011 9:01:57 PM


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by jazmine ann on 1/1/2011 6:04:23 PM


my family is really wacked up.
when i was 6, my dad would repeatedly hit me and grab me. When my parents got divorced, he stopped for a while. But a few years ago he started to grab me, not hit me. The grabbing is grabbing me shoulders or arms REALLY REALLY HARD and leaning into my face and yelling at me. It scares the crap out of me. He does this like once or twice a week. He also has called me some inapporpritate names (bad ones) and he says i'm spoiled and rotten and a brat. And it's not much better at my moms house either. She slapped me a few weeks ago. We're constantly getting into arguments and sometimes they'll get to the point where she grabs me too, just not as often as my dad. And she doesnt call me names. I just feel like I can't deal at either house!!! Im kinda scared to live at dads but I love him a lot!!!! i dont know what to do, im scared!

Hey darling. I'm so sorry to hear about this. We have an article on our website that covers this subject and can give you some really good advice. You can find it here: Good luck with everything! 
Jessica W.

by dinkaba11 on 12/31/2010 1:54:20 AM


See, its my friends birthday, and she wanted to have a sleepover with me and a couple of her friends, but when I told my mom, she started freaking out at me, saying that I'm never going to go to a sleepover unless it was in my house. I don't know why my parents keep smothering me like that, when I go to university, how am I suppose to stay in a dorm if they wouldn't even let me go to a friends house.

Hey chica! Try and talk to you parents about how you're feeling. Try getting them to better understand that you will be attending a University soon and that you want to start having a little freedom. Beyond that, there's really not too much you can do since every parent has different rules.  
Marly Z.

by Stardom96 on 12/25/2010 9:42:06 PM


MOD MOD MOD MD MOD MOD ok so i want 2 audition for a tv show i looked up some shows on google and i found a perfect show for me.Its called Madison High and u have 2 know how to act,dance and sing and i know how 2 do all three but first I have 2 ask my parents and i really don't know how any advice??????

Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. , Your Blog Patrol Babes 
Jessica W.

by Princess Keziyah on 12/24/2010 12:45:58 PM


MOD MOD MOD Alright I have two questions:
1. What are some really good anti-dandruff shampoos that won't make my hair blow up?
2. I really wanna get my eyebrows done because they're really thick and bushy. My mom says I can't do waxing/tweezing, I have to do threading just like her. She won't let me get it done right now because she says I'll have to stay on top of it and go regularly, otherwise my eyebrows will look uglier than they already are. I wanna know how long does threading last? My mom knows threading well but she says I have to get it done professionally the first time. Do you think that after the first time she can do it to me herself at home? Haha, sorry this is so long. Thanks!!!

Hey girlie. For your first question, the top rated anti-dandruff shampoos are Garnier Fructis Fortifying Anti-Dandruff Shampoo, Herbel Essence's Anti-Dandruff Shampoo, Head and Shoulders Intensive Treatment Shampoo, and Aveda Scalp Benefits Balance Shampoo. Either of these would be a great choice when dealing with dandruff

As for your second question, it probably would be good to your eyebrows through a professional threader first and ask their opinion to see if its ok for your mother to do it on you afterwards. My friend actually did threading for the first time a couple of months ago and has done it ever since. Her eyebrows always look sharp and clean right afterwards and it only takes 15 minutes. 
Jessica W.

by Scorpio1027 on 12/24/2010 4:50:20 AM


ok watever u do..dont cause drama. thts gonna make the whole problem worse. just convince her to tell her mom at a rite time (whatever u think is) and maybe itll help if u have a chance to go with her, it may make her feel less uncomfortable. but if she dusnt want u sayin anythin...then DONT! not unless u see that shes in real danger...or so much danger tht shes gonna die or sumthin. hopefully u know wat i mean....and i hope this helps. if not then screw it.

by tinkerbellea96 on 12/24/2010 1:39:32 AM


MOD MOD MOD MD MOD MOD ok so i want 2 audition for a tv show i looked up some shows on google and i found a perfect show for me.Its called Madison High and u have 2 know how to act,dance and sing and i know how 2 do all three but first I have 2 ask my parents and i really don't know how any advice??????

Hey chicky, I’m a busy bee facilitating all the G-Blog jazz. Although I’d love to answer and chat with all ya gals, it’s just not possible at the moment. I’m sure our lovely bloggers here would love to help ya out with some great advice! Thanks for understanding. , Your Blog Patrol Babes  
Jessica W.

by Princess Keziyah on 12/23/2010 6:13:38 PM


Omg i know u'll get through this it is hard now but it will pass


by oreolover123 on 12/23/2010 2:12:29 PM


Tell your mom, for sure! If you don't, you won't know what might happen to your cousin or her boyfriend. In the end though, she'll be appreciative that you saved her! Smile

by lilgirlkt on 12/23/2010 1:39:02 PM


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by Chicka678 on 12/23/2010 1:13:25 PM



hello there i hope your enjoying your day Smile. so im 13 5''4 1/2 and wieght around 120 pounds. im a gymnast so i do have more muscles which i know wieights a lot but i still desperatly wanna loose 2-5 pounds!!!! im do sit ups and v-sits and crunches everyday i eat pretty healthy but i cant stop snacking i love snacking. is there anyways i can stop snacking or i can loose wight really really fast and get fab abs?

2) also since i have leg muscle my thies are kind of big not huge but big anyway i could make then skinier ????? thx so much for the help Laughing

by nglamour97 on 12/23/2010 12:45:55 PM


Girl, you tell her she has to get herself out of the danger. Letting her be with him when he is a "few" years older isn't a good thing either PLUS he is in a GANG?!?!?!?! OMG, he's ghetto. Ewww. Ghetto is gross!!! Frown Tong

Tell her Mom about the gang. The longer YOU wait the more time she is in danger. Guys who are older and not good for girls who are young.

Get her out of it, or you tell her Mom ASAP! No more time for waiting.


by Cupcake1999 on 12/23/2010 12:25:27 PM


GANGS ARE STUPID!! To get into a gang you sometimes have to do something crazy like rape an innocent women or ever worse a CHILD!

by bff61 on 12/23/2010 11:59:07 AM


MODMODMODMOD!!!! ok so my family is having a family pic (and by family i mean my 10 cousins my mom dad my 5 uncles and 5 aunts and my grandma and grandpa) my mom is making me dress up like we gotta be weraing things like semi casual like we can wear nie jeans and a sweater and thts wat imma wear but my mom is taking me to the mall today to get a sweater so thts kinda the backround but the questions r WHERE CAN I GET THE SWEATER (my mom says we can go anywhere) AND WHAT MAKEUP SHOULD I WEAR?


I love buying sweaters at Forever 21, Old Navy, Gap, and J.Crew! If you want a bit of a nicer one, I would def go to J. Crew. Also, you want to look natural, but if the photo is going to have professional lighting and all that, then you'll want a good foundation (that matches your skin tone!) so you won't look washed out. Otherwise, go light on the eye-liner and a bit heavier on the mascara to make your eyes pop. Right before the pic, swipe a little lip balm or chap stick on so your lips won't look dry or too shiny (like with gloss).

bridget r.

by blahhhgirl on 12/23/2010 11:57:41 AM


I was in that sitch with a friend, but she was in the gang also, and started doing drugs. it was hard to see because we were so close, and she sometimes didn't come to school weeks at a time. i told my mom and she anonymously told the school. it was sad to see her kicked out, put in reform school, and sent to rehabilitation, but in the end she got the help she needed.

by prissytail97 on 12/23/2010 11:44:37 AM


well i say she should just stay close to her cousin (text, call etc.) and her cousin should just be there for her boyfriend cuz honestly that must suck :/

by jdizzle09 on 12/23/2010 11:38:09 AM


Just tell your mom.Even if your cuz never trusts you again,at least shell be safe

by lydibug499 on 12/23/2010 11:19:48 AM

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