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Crushing on a kid I never see

I like this guy, but I don’t have any classes with him. How can I get to know him better if I hardly ever see him?
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I have a comment already but just add on I think my friends can tell I like him. Me and the guyvare already friends and I'm not so much embarrassed of him(actually not at all) but of what my parents will do. Again, I have never had a boyfriend before and I don't know if I should start dating now because I'm nervous of what my parents will do.




hey girlie,

i would suggest talking to your parents--ask them if they approve of you dating at this point...you can just talk about the guy and his great qualities and how you want to spend more time with him...you don't have to say it as if you want him to be your boyfriend already, bc I think you guys do need to spend time getting to know each other and being better friends or just going on casual dates (instead of jumping into a relationship).  Don't worry--your parents have been in your shoes before, so they should understand a bit...they simply want what is best for you (they don't want to see you get hurt or too distracted), so listen to what they have to say and always respect and be honest with them Smile 
Ruth S.

by Maps85 on 5/21/2011 10:52:03 PM

 
 



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There is this boy. My friends all think we have a thing and he likes me. I always denie I like him but I actually do. I deny it because I have never had a boyfriend. My parents always mess with me about boys not that I have never had a boyfriend but things like did you see any cute boys does anyone like you? And I know they would make it so awkward of I dated this guy. I really want to and know if I admit I like him to my friends that he will ask me out because he has already told my good friend that he would if I told her that I would say yes.




hey girlie,

don't be embarrassed to admit you like him--if he's a great guy and a good friend, you guys can have a good time together!  I would suggest not diving into any sort of relationship--work on developing your friendship first, and see where things go....there's no rush, so get to know him and make sure he's worth it Smile 
Ruth S.

by Maps85 on 5/21/2011 10:28:20 PM

 
 

omg, this was sooo me, only i haven't seen this kid since 3rd grade lol. i started dating his friend and we went 2 different school n my bf (now ex unfortunantly) gave him my #... well wen my bf dumped me i found comfort in his friend n we confessed that we both really liked each other! its funy. i like his personality, but not him n it makes me feel kinda bad but....... idk its mean. just thought id share

by baibai97 on 5/14/2011 10:56:55 PM

 
 



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I have such a big problem! My family joined a new church and there were 2 guys in my Sunday School class who were a grade above me and they were best friends. Well I started liking one of them and I recently found out he liked me. I found out from his best friend. His best friend is going to ask him out for me this Monday for me (because I'm such a chicken lol.)Well he told my sister that he started liking me and of course my sister told me... I have no idea what to do! :/




hey girlie,

that's sweet--it's ok to have a little crush! and i'm glad he seems to have a little crush on you too.  don't be shy or worried--what's important is to get to know him better and develop a friendship first.  so if you guys do get a chance to hang out, just think of it as a great opportunity to get to know him better...to see what his hobbies are, what his goals in life are, his values, etc.  Just have fun and start from there! Smile 
Ruth S.

by katgamegab on 5/14/2011 1:16:54 PM

 
 

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ok so i like this guy but problem his, he's a grade older and i don't know how to get to know him!! and second problem is he's in 9th grade and i'm in 8th grade so we're not in the same building!! what do i do?
xxx thanks <3

 

Hey girl,

Do the two of you have any mutual friends that could introduce you to him? How did you meet him? Are you in the same activities at all? It will be easier next year to talk to him when you are in the same building.  I would try and see if you have any friends who might know him and you can ask what he is interested in. Next time you see him, don't be afraid to introduce yourself and strike up a conversation.


 

danielle D.

danielle D.

by doglover14 on 5/12/2011 3:37:08 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!!!!!! ok, so my BGF and I just found out we both like each other. but the only problem is were too close of friends! and the age difference doesn't help...what should i do? and if we do go out, then if we break up would that affect our friendship? and on top of all that, one of my good friends (his ex) still likes him!! i really dont know what to do!




Hey girlie. Breaking up a friendship is always something you risk if you date and break up on bad terms. So, you have to ask yourself if it's worth it to give it a shot or stay friends. Good luck! 
Marly Z.

by kookoo4cocopuffs666 on 5/2/2011 4:05:35 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD! So, my crush and I both liked eachother. A LOT. We almost went out but he got chicken and never asked me. 6 months later, I still like him but now he likes my best friend Claire. He knows I still like him and I don't know if he likes me back or not but it really bothers me because Claire and him hang out ALL the time. I talked to Claire about how I feel about this and she always says sorry and she'll try harder to include me and talk to him about it but things are only good for about a week when she does this. I don't want to KEEP talking to her about it because she already knows I don't like it. Claire and my crush are ex BF and GF so I expected him to be over her already since they broke up a year ago. He still sends me mixed signals and Claire told him how mad I am at him for that and he's talked to me and said sorry but things still aren't how I want it to be, which is my crush liking me again.How do I make him like me again and make him understand how I feel about it?

 

 

Hey girly girl! You definately  need to talk to this guy yourself, and let him know how you feel. Let him know that it's ok if he doesn't like you, but you want to know, rather than him leading you on!

xxx

Becca G.

by PinkZebra97 on 4/30/2011 7:17:28 PM

 
 

Hi girlies! come and join my club: Strictly No Boys Allowed! which is mostly about boy issues n' probs. But I'll help you with friends n' family probs to. But here's the catch: if we won't be able to give you the right advice, plz. don't hate us! After all Nobody's perfect, that's why we'll keep practicing till were perfect ,then again nobody's perfect so why practice? hahaha LOL! But seriously we'll try to give you the best advice we can.

by Isabella_1723 on 4/27/2011 3:49:41 AM

 
 

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Ok so i like this guy thats in one of my classes. Lets call him jake. We dont talk that much but he seems really nice. The other day in class we were supposed to get out folders from the front when out name was called. I was about to get my folder and then he got it for me without me askingSmile i said thanks but that was it. A couple days later I decided to make a move and talk to him on facebook. I started with a hw question and then he answered it and then asked how my spring break was goin. The convo went on for about 30 minutes before i had to go. I really liked talking to him facebook but im really shy so idk how to talk to him in schoolFrown I really like him and he I think he might like me alittle but idk what to. :/ We have talked in class before for like 2 sentences but thats it, and its mostly just about a school question.
Please help me with what i should do and how i should talk to him.
Thanks! (sorry this was really long)




Hey girlie. Keep up talking him on fb. The more comfortable you get talking to him on there, the more you will feel comfy talking to him in person. And keep up with talking to him about school stuff until the convo becomes natural. Then, add in things from outside class. Also, try and be funny. Guys love it when girls can make them laugh.  
Marly Z.

by bumblebeexo1 on 4/25/2011 6:48:19 PM

 
 



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I like this 1 guy, but so does one of my bffs. I asked my crush if he liked her, but he said not the way she likes him. I didn't tell my bff because I don't want to hurt her.
then, on a band trip, I was hanging out with a different(my bff dsen't do band) friend and my crush. On the way home, one of his friends told me that my crush likes my other friend, but that my crush isn't completely sure. I am trying not to be jealous, but it is really hard! Plus, there is a party/ dance thing comeing up, and my crush and I are both invited. Should I ask him to come with me?
HELP!!!!!!!!!!




Hey girlie -- you should never let a guy come between you and your friend. Your best bet is to leave this guy to someone else (unless your best friend is okay with you pursuing anything with him).




Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by alex365 on 4/23/2011 10:23:16 AM

 
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