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Hey! So I have a couple of questions.
1) Is a non padded bra considered a training bra?
2) I was thinking of getting a non padded bra because the ones tht I have is uncomfortable because of the wire. Do u think tht getting a non padded bra at Hollister or Abercombie good or do u know of any other stores u could get one?
3) Also should I get one with lace or a regular cotton one.
Thanks so much!!! Sorry so many questions.


Hey! 1) training bras are more like sportsbras 2) You could find one at Target or maybe American Eagle? 3) They cotton ones are more comfortable, so I would start with that and then get a lacey one later if you feel like it Smile good luck!

Helen S.

by APlovesJB on 7/18/2013 7:33:55 PM


i tried ti measure myself for a bra size today then i realized i dont know what meausrment means what! I meauserd 27 on the bottom and 32 across my boobs. Do you mniw what size that is? And also what are good websites for figuring out your size?


Hey girlie, if you measured correctly, you would be a 30DD. When you measure right below your breasts, you're measuring your band size. You use the difference between that number and the measurement across your breasts to determine your cup size. If you type "bra size calculator" into a search engine, you'll find plenty of websites to help you get the right bra size. 

Lauren T.

by Kehsnow on 7/14/2013 8:10:00 PM


Help! Sometimes when I'm sitting in class my bra starts to stab me. What do I do?! We're only allowed 2 restroom passes a week and I already used mine earlier this week. Please help! It's really embarrassing to fix my bra in front of everyone. When I tried turning to the wall all the guys in my class stare at my boobs! Please help! What can I do! Sorry it's so long.


Hey! sounds like you need a better bra. look at sizing charts and ask a sales woman to help you find something that fits right and is comfortable. If that's not an option just make sure you've adjusted before class. good luck girl! 

Helen S.

by Pizzlepancakes on 5/30/2013 8:32:30 PM


$lover, You cant get pregnant by having sex with yourself, its totally safe what she is doing. Some of us do it and some of us dont and its not judging to be concerned but I think its normal, I learned at some point most of us will do it someday if we havent already started. And I am not understanding the vagina and where you pee from because its all in the same area. I dont know, we have our vulva and we have the other part that is made for pleasure, maybe you mean she is touching that, and that is totally normal too, that is what its made for. I think if you went online or even went to the sex section here on GL it may help. I know I am not alone, I wish I knew more about it and wished GL would have more about it too!

by fashionqn on 5/28/2013 11:01:23 PM


I'm sorry I you didn't understand the post I typed in before. I was just gonna make it simpler my friend has sex with herself. She doesn't go near her vagina she does it like the place ou pee I was jut wondering if you can get pregnant from that. I also have another question. I have been using training bras for like forever. My step mom says that I should grt one. Well I haven't got one and my boobs are getting to big. She always forgets this stuff. If I tell her, she will say I don't need it even though she told me earlier that I needed it. Please help

by $lover on 5/28/2013 9:11:45 PM


Hey I have a question it doesn't really go with boobs but it goes with the body. I have a friend. She got her period lay year and it has been pretty fine. She does something weird though. You know the place where you pee she like I don't even know how to describe it. I think tha it is sex with yourself. I tried to help her, but she keeps on doing it. I read online that you need a guy and she doesn't have what needs to make a child. I mean she has the period abut not the other thing. I am worried that she might get pregnant. Can you get pregnant from that? I mean she isn't even doing what she does near her vagina. Can she get pregnant from this? Please answer and help ASAP. She came to me for help and I turned to you guys please help!

by $lover on 5/28/2013 9:01:42 PM


Oh and I'm 5'1 and weigh 107 pounds or 110 is that normal?



Hey girly!  It's hard to say whether you're normal or not weight-wise, as I'm not a doc and don't want to dish out the wrong info. If you eat mostly healthy and are active, though, then I'd say you have nothing to worry about! Smile


Becca G.

by hinatagal on 5/27/2013 10:09:14 PM


My period is 11 days late. i have not been sexually active, I got my period 3 years ago i think (I'm in 9th grade now I got it in 7th grade). Its pretty irregular but isn't your period suppose to be irregular the first 2 years? The last day of school is Wednesday and I'm finishing up finals that day too. Is it because of stress? Or whats happening?



Hey chica! If you're not sexually active, then I wouldn't worry. You're totally correct- periods are irregular your first few years, and for some, even after that! Periods can also be affected by stress, weight loss and weight gain. If you're super active, or you gain a lot of weight, then you might not get your period. 


Becca G.

by hinatagal on 5/27/2013 10:07:55 PM


i feel like my boobs stoped groeing, in elem. i had one of the biggest now im in middle school and mine seem the same size.

by unnatural1 on 5/24/2013 9:48:14 PM


Why would they make that the title

by Jules1399 on 5/22/2013 4:16:08 PM


Hey my boobs are just starting to grow and my nipples are always pointy and stiff. When I wear my clothes you can still see them unless i wear a padded bra. How can I make them stand out less?

Hey girl,

That's one of the reasons older girls wear bras in the first place! Sure it's to support larger boobs and take the stress off your back, but it's also to hide their nipples from being visible under their shirt. So stick to the bra and you'll be fine Smile 
Lauren C.

by yelhsa2198 on 9/1/2011 2:29:12 PM


mod mod mod
i'm a b cup but some a cups are to big for me why is that ??


That's because all bras are made differently - especially if they're a different cut or brand. Sizes just run different! Plus, if you try on an A cup with a bigger band size (the part that goes around your bod under your boobs), it'll be too big no matter what. That just shows you how crucial it is to try them on before ya buy!

Lauren C.

by dove204 on 8/29/2011 4:06:05 PM


do you think they sell AA cupped bras at Target or like Walmart? if not where can i buy them without spending a lot of money? thanks!!!!

Hey girl, it's hard to say but you can always check! If not, I'd try shopping at Target's website. They might not carry AA cup-size bras in the store because it's an unusual size, but chances are they have a stock of them online.

Alyssa B.

by yoyoandhoops456 on 8/25/2011 9:19:50 PM


Some of my friends have no problem letting their nipples show when they wear clothes including their swimsuits. I cant do that and feel weird when that happens. Are we both normal for feeling the way we do? its not like they are doing it on purpose for attention, but I still feel weird about it.

by luckykel on 8/18/2011 11:45:20 PM


I sometimes hear guys making fun of us when our nipples are visible. Guys are so weird about that. But we make fun of them when some of their body parts are visible through their clothes so that probably evens it out.

by luckykel on 8/18/2011 9:56:52 PM


please help! i use training bras, but i feel like i'm ready for regular ones. i don't know much about them, but i think it'd be really awkward if i just straight out ask my mom for them. she has mentioned them once before, but i was caught off guard when she did mention them. i don't know how i should bring them up again. how should i ask her without saying exactly "mom, i need a bra."? thanks so much mod!

Hey chica!

I know it seems awkward, but remember, your mom went through this too! She knows exactly how you're feeling. You just have to try talking to her and say, "Mom. I think I might need to start wearing real bras." See what she says. She most likely won't object. It's just best to come right out and say it! You can do it, girly!
Katelyn L.

by jonasloverxo on 8/18/2011 12:56:02 PM


how do you measure your bra size? i would ask someone at the store to but im probably going to the mall with my bf and that would be weird. and i havent got new bras in a while and i just want to know my size. please help!


Hey girl,


Unfortunately, asking for help at a department or specialty store is the best way to know for sure what your size is. If your boyfriend is uncomfortable, he could wait outside the store or visit a different place nearby while waiting for you.

Meghan D.

by sportscutie14 on 8/17/2011 10:59:55 AM


My nipples stick out all the time, is it normal? Its gotten to the point it bothers me.What can I do about it? HELP!!!

Totally normal, girl. Everyone's nipples are shaped differently - some point out only when it's cold, some point out all the time, some don't point out at all. Make sure you have a lined bra (some padding might also help give you extra coverage) and you'll feel much better about it Smile
Lauren C.

by Qwerky Girl on 8/15/2011 11:58:54 PM


I'm 13 and really flat-chested, but my areolas puff out, inflate, I always think I'm growing but it's been like it since last year. My mom says it's normal. Is it? Am I growing?


Hey girl,


Boobs come in all shapes and sizes, so you probably shouldn't worry. Your boobs are probably just growing like the rest of you! If the size of your areola is changing back and forth, though, you may want to ask a doctor to be sure.

Meghan D.

by Cait850 on 8/15/2011 12:11:05 PM


LOLOLOLOL this title makes me laugh Smile i like it

by qtpie42 on 8/13/2011 7:32:37 PM


MOD MOD MOD, 3 days ago i realized Lines On my chest like they are little lines and i thought they were lines from the way i slept but today ive noticed the lines since i woke up and they haven't gone away yet is this normal to be lines on my chest?


Hey chica, I'm not really sure what they are, so it's hard for me to say!  If they don't hurt or anything, I'm sure they're fine.  But you may wanna check with an adult who can help ya decide if you need to get it checked out.  xoxo

Marie H.

by mozilla10 on 8/13/2011 3:02:53 PM


MOD MOD MOD so this might sound kinda weird, but my nipples sort of puff up most of the time. sometimes they'll be normal, but they're mostly always puffy. why does this happen and is it abnormal?


Hey chica, you might wanna read this:  Basically, nipples change in response to different things, like temperature.  As long as you're not in pain, it's no prob!  xoxo

Marie H.

by MusikRox1999 on 8/13/2011 2:56:58 AM


Mod Mod Mod
I have a lot of clear discharge, white when it dries, and it smells. I also haven't had my period in 3 or 4 months. I started my period a little of a year ago, and it has always been a little irregular, like I'de miss my period for a month or two, then have it for a month or two. So this has been way irregular for me, could the discharge have anything to do with it???
Thank you!!!

Probably not, though your best bet is to talk with your doctor Smile

Brittany G.  

Brittany G.

by Americauna on 8/12/2011 11:13:25 PM


MOD ..
I stink down there... alot. My discharge is white and clear. NEVER YELLOW! But it stinks like CRAZY! Sometimes it itches. But like my hair down there does. Do I have a yeast infection? I mean, does it sound like I do?

It sounds like it may be, but only a doctor can diagnose and treat you if you do

Brittany G. 
Brittany G.

by LoveHappens on 8/12/2011 10:44:56 PM


so i have quite a bit of belly fat but my breats are almost nonexistent... what's up with that?

Genetics and exercise/eating habits could play a role

Brittany G.  
Brittany G.

by krazy198 on 8/12/2011 10:35:10 PM


Its so true, its like mine have a mind of themselves. I hate it when they become erect when I am in a swimsuit and they become noticeable. I just hate when that happens. It happens to guys too, they just arent as big as ours so we cant see them. When I tickle my bf his get hard sometimes too. Smile

by luckykel on 8/12/2011 10:22:09 PM


ok so I heard that your boobs will be pretty much grown after 2 years of your period. I'm half way through my 2nd year and my I'm still an A. But my nipples haven't fully grown yet. Does that mean that my boobs will keep on growing still? or will my boobs stay the same and my nipples just grow?

Hey girl,

It's impossible to know for sure! The truth is that your body could continue growing and changing until your early twenties, so try not to give it a strict time limit. Try to be patient and not so critical of the bod you've got right now - own it and enjoy it, because it's unique and it's yours! <3 
Lauren C.

by ALdancer on 8/12/2011 7:06:53 PM


mod mod mod mod mod-
I wear a B cup. The straps are as short as they can go, but they still fall. Is there any way that they can stop falling????


Hey girl,

You might need a smaller cup or band size to fit your smaller frame. Try getting professionally fit by someone at a department store (Macy's, Nordstrom) or a bra store (like Victoria's Secret). Getting measured and sized doesn't require you to buy a bra at go for it and see what size you SHOULD be wearing! This could really help make sure you get the exact right fit.

Lauren C.

by softballismyBFF on 8/12/2011 6:02:28 PM


so I've had my period for almost 2 years, but my breasts aren't fully developed yet, and they haven't really changed at all for like a year, what's up with that?


Hey girl,

We all grow at different speeds, that's what up! There's no rule that says your boobs have to be fully grown before your period try to be patient and love your bod for what it's like NOW Smile

Lauren C.

by swimgirl on 8/12/2011 5:40:31 PM


MOD MOD MOD! This summer,I got seriously sick so my doc perscribed me to a medication that made me put on some SERIOUS pounds!Any ideas on how to lose them b4 skool starts?Thanx!

Hey girly,
You can go wrong with cutting back on the junk food and trying to get a little exercise.

Catie C.

by artistchic99 on 8/12/2011 3:51:34 PM


MOD I've had my period one other time last month and it lasted about 10 days.Yesterday,I got my period again.It was almost exactly 4 wks from my last one only today i only got blood in the morning,now its mainly discharge.Is this OK?Or should i be worried? Thanks!! <3

Hey girly,
In the beginning of your period, things are still trying to work itself out so your periods will be a little irregular for a couple years. But if you are still concerned, check with a doctor.

Catie C.

by baconlvr711 on 8/12/2011 3:44:23 PM


MOD MOD MOD! The other day we were warming up for softball practice, of course, I was playing catch with the girl that throws the hardest, and she then hit me in the boob dead on! It is like a purplish blue color and it hurts. What should I do?

Hey girly,
It's probably a bruise, but if it doesn't go away for a long time, or starts to get worse, go see a doctor.

Catie C.

by nerdisthewurd26 on 8/12/2011 2:45:40 PM


omg i laughed so hard when i read the title! it's kind of weird...

by puppylover1152 on 8/12/2011 2:13:32 PM


Hey chicas,If you need advice on anything really I'm here 4 u!I answer questions on topics from boys to hair styles to drawing and much more!!!!!no question is too embarrassing or humiliating so come on down to my advice queen page and you wont be dissapointed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by artistchic99 on 8/12/2011 11:06:07 AM


Hey girls! My name is Maggie and I have been giving you guys advice here on GL for a year now and I absolutely LOVE doing it Smile I just wanted to let you know that I am now an ADVICE QUEEN! My advice queen page is going to be kept for guys/dating only but if you ever have a question about anything else NEVER hesitate to comment on my profile! Please join my advice queen page...I can't wait to start helping you guys figure out the boys in your lives!

Thanks for joining!


by maggie183 on 8/12/2011 10:02:24 AM


Weirdest. Headline. Ever.

by jennal923 on 8/12/2011 9:31:16 AM

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