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Secret signals! Body language cues give away what he's really thinking

Sitting on the back porch, holding a daisy and picking off petals while whispering “He loves me, he loves me not,” is not the most accurate way...
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i used to go to a coed school, but now i go to an all girls school, so i don't really see guys much. i do have one coed class, orchestra. I'm in seventh grade, and his year, i fell really hard for a guy, and our mutual guy friend was helping me out. now, though, I'm starting to like the friend that helped me out... which is kinda awkward.

He's shown some signs of liking me... when we were on a field trip and it started raining, he let me borrow his jacket, and he got soaked, but then he made me carry around the jacket for the rest of the day. when my friend asked him if he liked me, he said, "no, maybe, no." but maybe he was saying maybe to get away? whenever we chat online, (my friend comes on kind of strong...)i always start the convo... any ideas if he likes me or not?

by origamicranegirl on 5/25/2013 6:02:49 PM


There's this guy in my science class and I think he really likes me. My friends say they think he likes me, but I don't know how to respond around him. Sometimes he'll gently touch me, or try to tickle me - so does this mean he likes me???


Hy 99Paige, aww he may girl. Do you like him? If you do, show him the feeling is mutual and tickle him. Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile 

Lynae P.

by 99Paige on 4/23/2013 6:47:52 PM


Okay, I'm thirteen and I really, REALLY like this guy. He seems interested in me but I go a little crazy when I'm around him. I've heard and seen girl going shy and speachless around their crushes but I do the opposite. He think's I'm crazy and weird. What do I do? He does do the things listed above but the standing tall thing. I am shorter than him and he is taller than most people so is it natural that he kind of bends down to me? Help! What should I do?
Thank you


Hey PeculiarGirl, you just gotta calm yourself down. Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths and relax. Also think about how you're coming off to him. You going crazy are just your nerves messing with you. But remember he's just a boy, a person like me and you, no need to be nervous. Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile 

Lynae P.

by PeculiarGurl on 2/22/2013 8:55:58 PM


My friend likes this one guy and he acts like he really likes her too. But, he has a girlfriend and spends all of his time with her when he gets the chance to. What do I do to know if he really likes her so she doesn't get her heart broken?

by greenfur122 on 2/15/2013 7:06:04 PM


I really like this boy, I met him over the summer at a theater class thing. We saw each other all day basically for 5 days straight, and I know he liked me but I never got his number or email or anything. Now I haven't seen him since July 2012 and its Feb!!!! I might get to see him in a few months but i might not. Should I just give up on him or should I still try????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!

Hey girl, if there's any way you could get his number or email, go for it.  If you have a theater coach or mutual friend who has his contact info, ask them.  Then, invite him along to a group event with some of your other friends.  If there's a theater production you're going to see, that would be the perfect reason to invite him along.  If you can't contact him, it's probs best to move on (and then see what happens this summer).  Good luck!  

Karin E.

by ponyloverQW on 2/13/2013 10:54:36 AM


OMG The day after I read this I found out from him that my crush liked me!!!!! It was awesome!!!!!

by sassyevie on 2/5/2013 8:18:19 PM


This is kinda weird, but is it okay that I kinda share my account with my family and friends on girlslife? Like we kinda all use it to ask questions and stuff.


Hey girl, that's completely fine. As long as they aren't posting inappropriate comments! Smile 

lauren r.

by cheerfulcheer on 2/3/2013 12:39:51 PM


I like this boy i knew since kindergarden we talk still were both a freshman in high school.i like him.well the week we came back from christmas break.he started to mess with me like playfully bump me or call me names.and everytime he saw me he would come up and talk to me.Then the next week he didnt even talk to me he barely did.then last week he walked me to class and would say hi and this week he did not talk to me it is on and off with the talking.But during break i sent him a picture on accident that well no one should see.He was fine with it.also he acts like he likes me.Then last week we stared at eachother but i looked away.We keep looking at eachother but have not had a chance to talk this week.And when he is around me he does not talk that much same when we text.Even if he comes to me first.DOES HE LIKE ME? OR IS NERVOUS? he is confusing me and he will look at me everytime he sees me.DOES HE LIKE ME?


Hey girlie, that is confusing, it sounds like he's confused. Just keep being extra friendly with him and see how things go. He might like you but be afraid to ruin your friendship. Or he might not be sure how he feels about you right now. 

Lauren T.

by Rebekahlove14 on 1/30/2013 7:09:23 PM


There's guy in my class and i know he did like me because he made up some dumb excuse to text me and when we go to the mall with our friends and he sits next to me (usually its not on purpose) he'll try to make me laugh and when we go around a corner he will use it as an excuse for us to touch or lean on each other or if get comfortable in my seat he'll change postions or whatever but it's been two days and he hasnt texted me or when i text him first he will text me all day but around 9:30 pm he wont respond anymore even though he use to im worried he dosent like me anymore


Hey girlie, two days isn't anything to worry about. He's probably just had other things going on and hasn't had the time to text you. And maybe he's been going to bed early or working on hw at night. Just keep texting him and don't worry too much about it yet. 

Lauren T.

by Reba22:22 on 1/30/2013 4:56:17 PM


Mood mood mood!!!
Help I think I like this guy but, he flirts with other girls and has a gf. But me and him have a fun relationship we joke around each day now in class he (he sits next to me) he wants to poke my face and some times we look at one another's eyes and just talk and have fun but dose he like me more or am I just another friend oh also his best friend and one of my friends said we should date to both of our faces but idk what do u think?

Hey girlie,

Even if he's being flirty with you, you can't do anything while he's dating someone else! Imagine how you would feel if you were his girlfriend and he was flirting with other girls. Try staying just friends with him for now, and if he is single in the future maybe you could do something then. For now, focus your attention on your friends and fam, and schoolwork, and try to scope out some other, available cuties!

Meghan D.

by Wolfmoonstar on 1/28/2013 8:48:35 PM


I need fashion advice, I really wanna impress my crush but I still wanna be casual and comfy. Any suggestions?
And I have posted two comments yesterday and they still havnt showed up why?


Hey girl, depends what he's into! If he's a more urban/city dresser, I would go for urban wear. Check out lovetagapparel - my favorite urban wear. If he's a more snazzy dresser, find a really cute dress with wedges at forever 21 or h and m! Just be yourself and dress how you like!

lauren r.

by aweaver13 on 1/27/2013 11:49:53 AM


theres this guy i like. we've been an on and off flirting rollercoaster for two years. people say they think he likes me, people asked him but all he said was "thats a little personal" what does that mean? but the thing is he's SOOOOO flirtatious with everyone so how do i know if he really likes me or if im just another one of his flirting minions..?


Hey girl, that's good, that means it's personal information to him and he's being very mature about keeping it to himself. I think it's possible he likes you. Keep flirting and just see what happens! 

lauren r.

by giirl on 1/26/2013 1:12:17 AM


So there's this guy in one of my classes, and I've had a huge crush on him for a long time. He's a grade above mine, so we only have one class together. He's recently started talking to me a lot more than usual and trying to make me laugh a lot. He's always trying to annoy me whenever we pass each other in the hallway. I also catch him glancing over at me during class every once in a while, but I really don't know if he likes me or not. What do you think?


hey! I think you should make a clean break from your friends and start over. Start by talking to people. Just say hi and maybe ask some questions about them, like how their weekend was and if they did anything fun. People love to talk about themselves want they get going, so i know you can do it Smile Please don't hurt yourself, you are a wonderful, talented, smart individual and I hope you know that too. Good luck girl! 

Helen S.

by anniemari55 on 1/25/2013 11:07:06 PM


okay so this guy i think liked me so like he gave me his number and then the next day asked me for my number i didn't know my feelings about him at first but know i think i like him. the thing is he doesn't talk to me anymore and kind of just ignores me. So what should i do


Hey! I think you should try to say hi and rekindle your friendship again. Once you're talking give him your number. he wanted it before right? you should go for it! 

Helen S.

by toribear101 on 1/25/2013 9:51:13 PM


There's this guy I liked for a really long time now. I thought he was ask for my phone number or something like that. I think he likes me. What ways can I get his phone number and tell him I like him. Thx


Hey landeye01, try talking with him and slip it into the convo. Try something like "I don't think I have your number, put it in my phone so we can text sometimes." Hope this helps! Xoxo Smile  

Lynae P.

by landeye101 on 1/25/2013 6:16:20 PM


I reeeally like this guy, and today my bestie overheard that he's breaking up with his current GF because he likes someone else. He kind of described her, and she told me it sounded like he was describing me!! I don't know what to say to him or anything (um, NO experience with anything like this on my part...). And I'd really like to get to know him better. Do you have any suggestions?


You can't really do anything in that situation since you're not sure if it's you. Just continue acting yourself, and if it happens, than it happens. Good luck and just be patient! 

mailyse f.

by i<3cake on 1/25/2013 4:20:00 PM


thanks Hannah H.
its not just pecks its full blown making out if I ask them to stop they just ignore me Helen S.

by redvelvetluv on 1/24/2013 7:54:30 PM


My sister and her finance are making out constantly it's so annoying
It makes my stomach sick I don't understand why they can't
Do that in pirvate that's what I would do if I had a bf
It's so annoying my mom is like when you get older you'll understand
I'm 15 and the thought of kissing like that makes me wanna vomit!
I just wish they would smooch in pirvate because I REALLY
Don't wanna see that



Hey Chica, I totally understand where you're coming from, but your mom's right. You will understand when you're older. Still, you can ask your sister and her bf to calm it down. A peck is okay but a full blown makeout sesh is a bit much.


Hannah H. 

Hannah H.

by redvelvetluv on 1/24/2013 3:28:53 PM


So there is this boy that i really like him. My friends say he likes me to but he's not allowed to date,I don't know if I should believe them. He always picks on me and jokes around but then again were amazing friends. He sits by me all the time. He also shows a lot of the signs above to. What do you think? Please Help!


Hey girlie, he might like you, but if he can't date then he's not making a move because he can't do anything. So for now, just keep flirting. See where things go. 

Lauren T.

by youreweird_i_likeyou on 1/23/2013 6:32:14 PM


MODMOD Okay so there's a guy that is a grade younger than me, but he's older. We've only talked once ,but I like him alot. Like ALOT. How do I break the ice without being awkward.


Hey girlie, just say hi. Ask him how he is or how he has been and see where things go from there. Talking to someone you don't know is a risk, but if you have chemistry with him, the conversation will move forward. 

Lauren T.

by NatalieBrroo on 1/23/2013 6:21:22 PM


So I have this problem where I fell for a guy and I have no clue if he likes me!!!! HELP!! He always asks me what I'm doing after school, and he always suggests that we be partners for all of our school projects. He also always asks me if I have a boyfriend and he says I look really cute in my glasses. Do you think he likes me?


Hey girlie, there's definitely a chance! Do you some flirting to see how he responds. Simple things like touching his arm when you talk to him or keeping eye contact will do the trick. 

Lauren T.

by rockerchic123456789 on 1/23/2013 4:59:40 PM


MOD MOD MOD , IM SO CONFUSED!! I mean my boyfriend has been acting so weird!.. a week ago it started happening, i was staring and as a joke I'd kiss the (Justin Bieber posters) and stuff like that and he got all weird like almost jealous but I don't understand how i mean its just a poster and whenever there's a magazine of One direction he'd flip it over and I wanted to see what he was hiding and he said " don't look please for me" ?????, then the other day he brought up a subject about him wanting to exercises to get a six pack ( which I think is way too big of a goal for a 7th grader) i mean i don't understand why he's being like this,Then I saw a book he had saying 100 ways to get fit and I looked at him and said" Do you really want a six pack that bad?" and he threw it back in my face saying "Shut up how would you like it if I said: do you really want to lose weight that badly! He knows I do!and he said it so willingly! I love him and that wouldn't change if he got so called "Fit"

Hey girlie,

I think a lot of people can get jealous if their boyfriend/girlfriend has a crush, even a celebrity crush, because it might make them feel inadequate. Try telling him that he's the only person you want to be with and that he doesn't need to be jealous! And try not to be so hard on yourself, and tell him to do the same. As long as you're living healthy lifestyles, that matters more than your appearance! Maybe you could exercise together to ease that conversation away and to motivate each other. If he still keeps being jealous, though, I would talk to a counselor or other trusted adult like a parent about his behavior because they can give you more specific advice if you can talk in person.

Meghan D.

by mozilla10 on 1/21/2013 8:23:42 PM


So I've been texting this guy for the past month and it was going pretty good, even though I can only see him once a month at this party a local theater group has (parent's rules) cuz he doesn't go to my school or live in my town. However, a few weeks ago we were texting and he asked me to always text him first, (because he would sometimes forget he was texting me) and I told him no because I don't want to be in control. He said okay but since then he hasn't texted me first at all. Any clue why he'd want me to always start? I text him every few days, but when we start talking he stops after only fifteen minutes. I know he likes me because he told me (he knows I like him too), but I'm not sure he does anymore. Any advice? Thanks!!

Hey chica, if he told you he likes you, then don't worry about the texting convos.  Remember, personal real-life interactions are much more important than text messages.  It just sounds like he doesn't like to text very much.  If you want to communicate with him more than once a month, ask him if he'd like to chat on the phone for a few minutes or chat online.  Talk about it with him the next time you see him.  Good luck!  

Karin E.

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by bethiiboo16 on 1/20/2013 11:19:29 AM


Mod...i like 2 guys. 1st guy has a gf but doesnt like her as much as me. The 2nd guy is single and acts like he likes me. Im not sure if he does. What are some ways to find out without making him suspicous?


Hey girl, just talk to him. Maybe in conversation drop the line that you're interested in dating someone. If he starts to ask who...he's interested. Just keep on flirting and see what happens! 

lauren r.

by bethiiboo16 on 1/20/2013 11:16:46 AM


I like this guy but he's way more popular than me were in the same homeroom and went to the same elementary school so were friends . We talk and he seems like he likes me . But he's on and off with some popular girl. Is there any chance he likes me ?


Hey girl, its definitely possible! Keep on talking to him and see what happens! 

lauren r.

by juliacar on 1/20/2013 9:50:16 AM


well a while ago this guy asked if I liked him and I said yes (even though I don't) I didn't want him to feel bad.. And now he texts me all the time and says he loves me and im gorgeous and it bugs me soo BAD!! I really like this other guy and the guy I like thinks I like the creepy guy.. and I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!! IM SUPER FREAKED OUT!! please help me... thank you


Hey girl, I think you should just tell the other guy that you're not into him. Just phrase it nicely as possible. Say you'd love to be friends but you're not interested in a relationship right now. 

lauren r.

by kkheartspink on 1/20/2013 1:11:01 AM


Body language is big, just like with friends and girls we know that give off certain body language vibes toward us, guys do the same thing. Being able to read a guys body language is a big help in knowing if he is interested or not. It may be harder to know if the guy is the real flirty type but its possible to know the signs.

by fashionqn on 1/20/2013 12:30:20 AM


Well what if he comes and gives you a hug when you wave at him? And what if when you wave he walks around the room and keeps looking at you? And what if you have poking wars at 1 in the morning on Facebook? don't see eachother a lot're 15 and he's 19... Help? I really like him a lot...and we see eachother often considering our

Hey girlie,

15 and 19 can be a pretty big difference when you're young! I would try just staying friends with him for now and keeping your options open to guys at your school and in your class!

Meghan D.

by bdarrough98 on 1/19/2013 10:40:28 PM


Mod mod mod I like a boy who I used to be friends with we stopped talking for a while due to the awkwardness of him finding out I like him but now we kinda talk more recently he backed me up during an argument with one of his best friends and we smiled at eachother but when my math teacher made him sit behind me he asked if he could move is he avoiding me or did he want to move because of someone else? Does he like me?

Hey girlie,

I'm not sure if he likes you, or if he does, he might not be ready for a relationship right now. If you've told him you like him and he hasn't done anything, I wouldn't bring it up again. Now that he knows you like him, he can say something about it if he wants to be more than that! As for why he moved, he might have been avoiding you or it could have been another reason, there's really no way to tell. Maybe you could talk to him in person and say that you want to be friends no matter how he feels. Hopefully he will remember the fun times you had and not want to be less than friends anymore!

Meghan D.

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by nazirah817 on 1/19/2013 7:55:22 PM


I posted a question on here a hour ago and it still hasn't been
Posted it wasn't a bad question it was just advice for me because
Iv been feeling REALLY sad angry and annoyed lately mostly sad
Today I screamed at my sisters finance and my sister kept picking on me
And I was the one who got in trouble when she was the one picking on me
That made me feel even worse I don't know if it's because I'm getting my period
Or not because I feel this way even when I'm done my period
I just really sad and irritated I feel like EVERYONE is always picking on me
I know this is gonna sound bad but I screamed at my sister to and I didn't even care


hey! we all feel angry and sad from time to time, sometimes for reasons we don't understand, and that's ok. What's important is that you don't take these feelings out on the people around you. You must acknowledge your anger, express it healthily through an outlet, like writing or something else that works best for you. Don't try to ignore these feelings, or they will just get worse. I hope this helps! 


Helen S.

by redvelvetluv on 1/19/2013 4:29:56 PM


Me and my crush Miguel went to youth group last night. My mom told me that his mom said that he has a crush on me and he thinks I'm pretty. We had a blast yesterday. He makes me feel amazing inside. He looks through my iPod alot to see what I've been up to. When we were learning he was eye-balling this girl, but he mostly paid attention to me. He's really social and he wants me to open up an to not be afraid. I'm worried if he likes that girl. I gave him my cell number yesterday and he hasn't called or text me yet. Should I stress about it?


hey! no girl, don't stress. if something happens naturally, great, if not there are other guys out there right?  

Helen S.

by craycraytata123 on 1/19/2013 4:04:43 PM


My crush is coming over this afternoon to hang with my bro, and I seriously don't know how to act. If I talk to him my family will prob find out that I like him, but I don't want them to. Or does it matter if my family knows? So please give me some tips on how to make him notice me and btw he is 15 and I am 13 so I don't want to seem like the little sister!


hey! well if he's friends with your bro you'll probably see him again right? so for now just be friendly  and say hi. Ask him how he's doing sometime. Honestly the best way not to seem like a little sister is not to worry about what your brother is doing. good luck! 

Helen S.

by ralinia on 1/19/2013 3:33:01 PM


I feel REALLY sad lately sometimes irritatied and angry mostly sad I think
It's because I'm getting my period but sometimes I feel this way even when
I'm done my period I still feel angry and really sad I screamed at my sisters Bf today
I also feel like everyone is always picking on me and today when my sister kept
Bugging me I was the one who got in trouble that made me feel even
Worse I just feel really upset please help thanks so much


hey! we all feel angry and sad from time to time, sometimes for reasons we don't understand, and that's ok. What's important is that you don't take these feelings out on the people around you. You must acknowledge your anger, express it healthily through an outlet, like writing or something else that works best for you. Don't try to ignore these feelings, or they will just get worse. I hope this helps! 

Helen S.

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by karasinski on 1/19/2013 12:49:35 PM


My crush says he only likes me as a friend but i like him a little more than a friend but its fading away now im ignoring him cuz i dont really like him anymore what do i wdo erbody keep sayon dat he likea me and it seems like he doesnt want to be friends but like 3yrs of friendship and he still hasnt tried anything


hey! Just ignore what people are saying and if you don't like him anymore, be his friend. If that's what he wants too, like he says, than this should all work out fine Smile 

Helen S.

by mindless_101 on 1/19/2013 9:59:12 AM


What, can I do if i really like this guy but i dont know what to say when, i am around him?


hey! try thinking about what you talk to your good friends about. How do your conversations start? what kinds of things do you ask each other about? Take this approach when you see your crush, be friendly, and talking to him will be as easy as it is with your friends if he wants the conversation to work as well. 

Helen S.

by jazzy.hope101 on 1/19/2013 9:36:49 AM


I've been dreaming about my crush a lot. Last night, I had a dream that he came over my house and was holding my hand and being silly with me. What does it mean when you dream about someone a lot?


hey! Dreams are your brain's way of processing the information you learned or thought about when you're a wake. dreaming is part of how our memories are created and stored. Chances are if you think about this guy a lot when you're awake, you'll dream about him. What this dream means is entirely up to you. Only the dreamer can assign any meaning to a dream. I can't assign meaning to it, because only you know your true thoughts and feelings about your dream. Try writing it down and thinking about your dream. what thoughts and feelings come to mind in association with it? In this way you can assign meaning to your dreams and understand your own feelings better. I hope this helps! 

Helen S.

by kittycatmeowmeowchelsea on 1/19/2013 9:30:05 AM


Mod mod mod
So I liked my crush's tbh status. (I was first to like it, squee!) He didn't do mine or snyone's yet and it's been like a day. Do I comment "you better do mine Smile"? What should I say? Thanks Smile


hey! just wait and see if he likes anyones (or yours) maybe he just hasn't gotten around to it yet. good luck! 

Helen S.

by britishgurl on 1/19/2013 9:26:36 AM


I outgrew all my training bras so my mom is taking me to get measured nd fitted for a real bra. I 10 do I have to take off my shirt and what does it feel like? Thanks. Also is there any way that I can make money in a place where there are already people that do everything. (Snow shoveling,leaf raking,etc.) Thanks again.


hey! In a fitting, yes you usually have to take off your shirt, but don't worry, the people measuring you are professionals and they will do everything they can to make you feel comfortable and safe. here is all our ideas about ways to make money : 

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by hgrules on 1/19/2013 7:56:03 AM


Lately my friends are being kind of annoying. Ever since a year and a half ago, a group of my friends made it VERY clear that they hate Justin Bieber and One Direction. I was okay with it for a year, but this year they're STILL going on about it. They use these artists music as a joke that's like torture, at dances they scream and run away when their songs play, and they make it seem like they're bad people even though they don't even know them. I've said something about it two days in a row, and they protest and act all defensive. They were like "We can express our opinions" but it's like they don't realize that what they say us actually rude, AND they don't realize they do it way too often. They made me feel guilty about standing up for artists I like, but at the same time I'm still annoyed. Yet I feel quilty, like I'm the one who did something mean. Do you think I was mean? If they don't stop, should I keep saying something?


hey! I think that you're absolutely right and that your friends are acting a little dramatic, which is totally to be expected from teens. The reason you feel guilty is because you're in the minority with your opinion and your friends are making you feel like your views are not as valid as theirs. Keep standing up for yourself. They're going through a phase, and they will eventually realize that you're right. 

Helen S.

by MusikRox1999 on 1/19/2013 1:41:33 AM


So it's a three day weekend, what should I do?! I get bored on the 2-day ones!

Hey girlie,

Maybe you could do something fun with your friends, like have a game night, go to the movies or go bowling. You could also try to do something fun with your fam, or catch up on homework or your fav TV show. The weekend will be over before you know it!

Meghan D.

by WinnieGirlie on 1/19/2013 12:17:58 AM

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