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Prom is coming up next month, and last week I asked the guy I kind of liked if he wanted to go with me, but he said no. Although I don't mind going solo, it'd be nice to have a date, so I've been thinking about seeing if my one guy friend has a date and suggesting we go as friends if he doesn't. The problem is, I only see him in one class, and the guy I already asked is in that class, so he might overhear the conversation. Plus, I don't want my friend to feel like he's just my backup option, since he knew pretty much what happened. If your first choice for a date says no, does it look bad if you ask someone else? I don't want to be that girl who's desperate for a date.

 

Hmm seems like a tough situation. Maybe ask your guy friend but let him know it's as a friend. Just make sure he knows you'll love to go with him but it's not that hes your back up or lame date option. You just think youll have the most fun at prom with him. Good luck! xoxo kerra 

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I feel awful because I've become great friends with this guy. He's really really smart and we always have neverending intellectual conversations. I think I've fallen for his personality, but I'm a little bit shallow, and I would'nt date his look. He's a little chubby with awkward curly hair and harry potter glasses. I really like his personality and I think he likes me, but I cant see past his face! what do I do???

If you're not sure how you feel about his looks, it's ok to keep hanging out with him as friends. Maybe if you spend more time with him, you will become more attracted to who he is and will begin to like his appearance as well. Try to remember it's what's inside that counts and that if you get along, that's a great sign! He might also grow and change appearance a lot as you get older, so keep that in mind too. Who you date is ultimately your decision, though, so if you want to just stay friends with him that's up to you!