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Brrr! Don’t get us wrong, after a hot summer we’re totally psyched for the perf fall weather. But with temps droppin’, it can get a little tough to go out and hang with friends, a date or even a BF. When it’s a bit too chilly, mix things up by bringing your date indoors. Not sure what to do? No worries, we’ve got ya covered.
 
Make it a Movie Night
 
Instead of heading out to the theaters, invite your cutie over for a change. Buy your fave boxed candy, rent a few flicks you both wanted to see and pop some popcorn. Turn off the lights and enjoy all the great parts of the theatre coupled with the comfort of a couch and blankets. Bravo!

Do Dinner for Two
 
They say the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, right? Skip dinner at a restaurant (which can be chilly, not to mention a tad pricey) for some grub right at home.  Invite your crush over to cook with you (ask your ’rents for permission first). Mom and Dad are naggin’ to linger? Make it a family affair. Cooking together can be tons of fun. Plus, you’ll see how great the two of you work together—and how well he can hang with the fam. Brownie points!
 
Go for Game Time
 

Call it old school, but board games are a ton of fun. Next time your guy’s over, break out and dust off the classics you both loved as kids. Whether it’s Chutes and Ladders or Twister, you’ll stay entertained for hours. What more? It will bring tons of talking points where you can reminisce and share your kid memories—while creating some new ones of your own.

BY KRISTEN YEUNG ON 10/10/2010 7:00:00 AM

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~tomorrow, me and my bf will be together for 4 weeks. He hopes were soul mates and claims he wants to marry me. We've been friends for a while and he knows alot about me, but im not sure he knows the True meaning of love?? How can I set him straigt without hurting him?




Hey girl! Sounds like he may be moving a tad fast. If you like him let him know, but don't be shy about telling him you want to take it slow. If he really wants to marry you, he will hear you out. Keep getting to know each other and have fun flirting but don't feel like you have to make any big claims just because he is. 




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Taeler L.

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by Kylie1212 on 11/10/2011 6:42:14 PM

 
 

I just started to date this guy . He is super sweet when texting but then never talks to me around his friends

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by Efun on 11/9/2011 8:17:43 PM

 
 



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I have really wide shoulders and i want a bf. Do guys think that my shoulders are unattractive?




Hey babe,

All guys are different obviously, but I have plenty of guy friends who wouldn't care either way how big your shoulders are! They focus on other things, like your smile, your sense of humor, your love of adventure/fun, etc. Sure, some guys might prefer girls with smaller frames. But for each one of them, there's a guy who appreciates strong shoulders in a girl/woman! It's all about finding the ones who will appreciate you for YOU - for all of your physical and personality traits. He's out there, girl!
Lauren C.

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by cinder3lla on 11/3/2011 10:33:51 PM

 
 



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Lauren c...
Wat I meant is i wanna no how 2 relate w/ guys in a way that mite lead 2 me liking one of them... And then how 2 flirt w/ them if that did happen... Also it seems like I no all the guys at the school, and my feelings won't change, is that true???




Hey again,

It's all about confidence. Talking to guys, making them more comfy around you (and you around them), getting to know them, asking questions, etc. will all make you seem interested, while letting you understand them better as people. It's the best way to learn whether or not you could crush on them! Once you do find a crush (someone whose looks, personality, strengths, and interests are attractive to you), flirting is easier than it sounds. You need to do that same talking strategy, but add in some compliments (on his bball game, smarts in math, funny jokes, cool shirt, etc.), playfully teasing when it fits into the convo, and even some funny jokes of your own. You'll figure out your own flirting style as you try to do it more often! It's possible that you might need to branch out and meet guys elsewhere (at a town sport, youth group, part-time job, volunteer organization, the mall, etc.), but it's also possible that growing up might cause you to reevaluate how you feel about some guys you thought you knew well. It's crazy how our tastes change as we get older! So try not to be too pessimistic about your future crush forecast Smile I'll bet things will look up pretty soon! 
Lauren C.

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by Rosemaryluver on 10/30/2011 12:39:30 AM

 
 



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Sooo we had a dance the other nite (I'm in 7th grade) and mi friend wuz there w/ her bf, and I had never rlly thought of it b4 but I was watching them slow dance and they were super close the entire time... And I realized I rlly want a bf.. but the problem is i dont like n e one rite now.. Ppl say I'm pretty but idk I've been asked out b 4 but it didnt rlly work out ya so how do I find someone 2 like then have him like me... Thx




Hey girlie,

I totallyyyy understand wanting a BF because you're kinda jealous/feeling a little left-out, but trust me - dating a guy just for the sake of dating him (because he asks you out, because you just want a BF) will not make you happy. It's only fun and exciting if you like the guy back!! So instead of focusing on wanting a BF, instead focus on trying to get to know new people and meet new guys by joining a new club, branching out, or meeting friends-of-friends. Be out-going and confident - ask guys questions, relax, and let them see the real you. You'll connect with a guy before you know it and find yourself going out on fun dates with him!
Lauren C.

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by Rosemaryluver on 10/29/2011 11:49:53 PM

 
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