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Hello! I have really strong feelings for my ex. Long story short, he broke up with me 4 years ago, i said i missed him, he ignored me, then HE said he missed me, and i ignored him during over these past 4 years. Now we've gotten past the breakup, and we're friends now. We've started talking, and he makes me cd's of the artists we both like, and we get along pretty well (even though it's still a little awkward). I really like him, but I feel like I can come across as too easy (i feel like i fall too quickly for guys in general), and i think that's the reason why all the guys i like initially like me first, but i scare/bore them away. :/ What should I do? Should I keep talking to him? Make the first move? Wait until he flirts with me? Or scrap the idea of getting back together?

I think you two should keep talking but keep your distance. Dont let him get you too easily. Or else he'll lose interest really fast. Good luck! xoxo kerra 

MOD! there's this guy that i've gotten pretty close to this summer, cuz we've been on the same swim team for years. and now i have a crush on him. but he has a girlfriend. so he texted me like every day last week, and last night he called me on the phone. we were talking, and then he said "can, i ask you something, but you have to answer it honestly." so i said yes. so he said "i heard from someone that you like me. is that true?" i said "maybeeee, yes" so he said that he and his girlfriend were growing apart, and that there was a diffrent girl that he liked. so i asked who it was, and he said "you." and he's thinking about going to my high school, and he said that he would probably go out with me. but he is still going out with his gf, so he said that we should hang out this month, and just be friends for now, and see how it goes. what do i do?

hey! Agree to be his friedn but nothing more until he breaks up with this girl. You don't want to get hurt, and it seems odd to me that he's lining up a new girl when he's still with this one. just be careful.