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My boyfriend just asked me recently if I would ever kiss him. I just told him that I don't know. Then I asked him if he would ever kiss me. He said yes. I felt all awkward. I kept thinking to myself, "What if he tries to kiss me when I'm not expecting it? What if something goes terribly wrong? What if I totally embarrass myself?" All these things were going through my head. What do I do to calm my nerves?


Hey girly! Don’t fret too much about your first kiss. Every girl – and guy – wants it to be perfect and special, and it will be, but in its own way. There is no reason to over think it and plan out every last detail – the more spontaneous it is the more memorable it will be!


Even though your boyfriend says he is ready now, you don’t have to be. Everyone matures at his or her own pace and may need some more time to prepare for the next step in the relationship. The first kiss is a big moment in a girl’s life, so there is absolutely no need to rush in to it. And if your boyfriend just can’t understand that you are not ready, then maybe he doesn’t deserve to be your first kiss.


Take all the time that you need to take the next step and only go for it when you are positive that you are ready. But remember that it doesn’t have to be planned ahead of time to be perfect and memorable.
 
 
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BY ANA D’AMBROGI ON 2/26/2012 12:00:00 AM

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i got my first kiss last week...and i blacked out and i dont remember him kissing me. Frown

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by luv798 on 2/27/2012 9:08:34 PM

 
 

This exact situation happened to me a month or so ago, and then last week i decided my boyfriend kissed me and it really wasnt as tramatizing as i was making it seem. it was amazing!!! just let it happen and dont freak out!!!

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by kgscotty on 2/27/2012 8:40:53 PM

 
 

Don't plan it, don't stress about, it'll happen...just let it!!

Join my club, 'Orchestra Nerds and Band Geeks.' It's a loose and fun club where we talk about anything and everything- But especially music Smile Go to my profile to join!! svds

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by svds on 2/27/2012 5:36:03 PM

 
 

Aw, it's alright! I was the same exact way , I felt like I had my first kiss later than all my other friends but it happened when I least expected it and it was great.<3 Try not to think about it ,and it will be better than you imagine!

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by michipie205 on 2/27/2012 5:35:54 PM

 
 

I'm never gonna get my first kiss :"(

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