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My BF asked me inappro questions


 
I’ve had a BF for about two months. He has been asking me nasty questions. Like, he asked me to make out, so we did. Now he’s asking to see and touch things. Ewww! I can’t tell him I’m not into that. I’m thinking of dumping him.


Dear To Dump or Not to Dump,

You say you can’t but, yes, you can tell your boyfriend that you don’t like the pressure. You can say that you enjoy talking to him but not about sexual stuff. If you can’t bring yourself to speak your mind and he keeps making you feel uncomfortable, free yourself from this relationship—immediately. Don’t worry about being mean. Right now, he’s not worrying about how you’re feeling, is he? Trust me—you’d survive a breakup, and so would he. If you feel you are ready to be in a relationship, then you also need to be prepared to assert yourself in situations that make you uneasy.
 
 
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BY CAROL WESTON ON 4/25/2012 9:00:00 AM

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I wouldn't feel safe around a guy like that. Boyfriend or not, I would avoid him!

by Gabriella123 on 4/28/2012 2:36:31 PM

 
 

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My cousins gf is very pretty to him and they never talk at school because everyone finds it weird because he was the first guy to date her. Should he break up with her?

Hey girl,

It's up to them whether they break up, but if they get along it doesn't matter what everyone else at school thinks! If they are both happy with the relationship, then they should stay together!

Meghan D.

by misstomboy1 on 4/27/2012 10:27:45 PM

 
 

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My cousin was talking to my bf when I wasn't there so my cousin asked if he had a gf and he said I'm over that stuff. I really like him I don't know what to do. I think he said that cuz people make fun of me and him if they knew so he probably told that to my cousin. What should I do?

Hey girl,

It sounds like you and your bf need to sit down and talk about this ... good relationships are based on honesty! If he's not proud to be with you, that doesn't sound like a good relationship basis! Let him know that you really like him, but that you want everyone else to know how much you like each other, too!

Meghan D.

by misstomboy1 on 4/27/2012 10:21:00 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD! This guy I like pretty much cheated on his girlfriend with me (not in a sexual way, but we did cuddle, hold hands, etc.). I feel like "the other girl". He assured me that his feelings for me are real and that if something happens with his girlfriend, then he'd ask me out. Is he being shady? I feel like a second choice...

 

hey! Yeah he's being a little shady. He's keeping you on the hook in case things don't work out with his girlfriend. If his feelings for you are real, he would have broken up with his girlfriend before holding hands etc. with you. don't wait around for this guy, I think you can do better ;) 


Helen S.

by ILoveBigTimeRush1 on 4/27/2012 5:31:12 PM

 
 



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I'm a freshman in high school. I made a really huge mistake involving my boyfriend. Nothing happened but we got caught. Another mom knows now, and I'm worried that soon everyone will find out. How do I deal with rumors and people who confront me about it? I really really regret what happened. I'm so afraid this is going to change how people see me until I graduate. Help!

 

Hey chica!

With so many young people making mistakes they regret, unfortunately, you probably don't look as bad as you might think. If someone asks about it, you could explain how you feel about it now and regret it. A lot of times people are understanding; and don't worry about your reputation until graduation, people usually see what you are by then rather than what you were. Smile


Krupali D.

by dancerchick96 on 4/27/2012 7:36:26 AM

 
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