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How do you stop liking a guy that you know won’t like you back? I've tried everything!

 

It always sucks when your crush doesn’t like you back, but you shouldn’t waste anytime dwelling on that fact. The most important thing is to distract your mind and make yourself so busy that you literally don’t have time to think about him. Here’s how to move on without looking back.

 

Spend more time with your friends and family. Closing yourself off only makes it worse. Get out there and laugh with the ones who know you best.

 

Get back into an old hobby. No, we don’t mean stalking him on Facebook. Step away from social media for a sec and do activities that put a smile on your face.

 

Take your frustrations out through exercising. Pick yourself up and hit the gym or run around the block. A daily dose of endorphin-raising activities will kick your brokenhearted blues fast.

 

Look for someone new to crush on who is nicer and cuter. He’s out there somewhere. Even if you don’t find him right away, keeping your eyes open helps you lose focus of the old flame.

 

Focus on your schoolwork. Crushes only last so long. That gleaming sense of accomplishment from boosting your GPA outlasts any heartache.

 

Learn to cook or bake something new.  We know you’ve got oodles of recipes on your pinboards, and we’ve got tons here and here. Try ‘em out, sweetness!

 

Clear out the mess under your bed and in your closet. A clean start should start with a clean room. Any cutesy momentos that remind you of him? Toss ‘em fast and relish in an uncluttered mind.

 

Start reading a new book. Preferably one that doesn’t draw parallels between the dreamy hero (ahem, Twilight) and your former crush. Pick one that puts your mind as far away from him as possible.

 

Crank up the tunes and dance. Because life’s too short to be a wallflower at your own party – even if it’s just a personal dance party in your room.

 

It won’t be an instant cure, but the ache won’t last forever. Remember that he isn’t the only boy in world and you’re way better off finding a guy who’s just as crazy for you as you are for him.
 
 
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Okay, so I show cattle and there is this guy that is 14 and I'm 13. I've liked him for 2 years now but I haven't told anyone. My mom and sister think I like him but I don't want them to think that. We are both really shy so we don't talk much and I'm kinda scared to talk to him. There are also a bunch of people that would make fun of me too if they knew I liked him. We don't have a lot of time at shows either because we are always working. He is also always hanging out with his older cousin that is going to be a senior in high school next year. I don't know how to talk to him since he is always with older people. I really like him but I also don't go to school with him so I only see him in the summer and only like 3 times a month. Any Advice? Thank You sooooo much!

Hey girl,

If you want to start talking to him, that's great, but people who know you well like your mom and sister will definitely know you like him. But if they already know anyway, it's not a big deal -- they're not going to tell anyone! So if you want to talk to him before the summer and maybe exchange numbers (even as friends), it never hurts to say hi and start a friendly conversation! It will be scary at first, but he could be really nice!

Meghan D.

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by cowsrule11 on 5/18/2012 10:23:02 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD!!! I've never in my life had a guy like me. It is probably my looks. I have zits crooked teeth, I'm skinny, but my tummy sticks out. Plus, I'm also obbsessed w/ comedy. my fam says I'm a born comedian, but people come across me as hyper or annoying. what is wrong?

Hey girl,

If guys aren't going for you, they're probably intimidated by how cool you are! If you love comedy, stick with that and don't worry about guys for now! You still have plenty of time to grow up, and your body and skin will change, too, so as long as you're being healthy, focus on all of your amazing talents and don't worry about boys!

Meghan D.

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by promqueen105 on 5/11/2012 9:17:45 PM

 
 



ModModModModMod!!!!! JORDAN RSo yesterday I got to color guard early. I noticed that my crushs GF was there so I quickly sat down alone and played with my phone. I someone say "should we go talk to her?"then suddenly someone said "Deiondra come socialize" I looked and it was her. Then she told me to come and she introduced me to a lot of people, then asked me about my classes, and eventually he came along and she jumped up and gave him a hug.Then she went outside and told me to come along. I did but I stood by the door then went in. Later I was talking to a friend and she came over and said hi and introduced herself to my friend. Then this morning I was sitting on a bench and she walked by said, hi, how I was doing and I answered and asked her the same. Don't get me wrong she is really nice but I felt extremely awkward and I know that I want to be friends but first I know I need to get we first but I don't know how I've tried many times and it never works. Help! ModModModModMod!!!

 

Hey! I'm not Jordan but i hope I can help you out Smile Even though she's your crush's gf, she's making an effort to be your friend, and those are always worth having around. I think you should give her a chance. If she's making you feel uncomfortable, is it because you don't like her, or because you don't like that she's dating your crush? If you feel like you guys could be pals, maybe put this crush aside, there'll be others, I promise! 


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by ladyinlike on 5/11/2012 10:39:52 AM

 
 

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Hey babe,

Just post another comment, add the Mod's name (in my case, "MODMODMOD Jordan S.) and we should see your comment to respond!
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by hermionegirl12 on 5/7/2012 8:13:03 PM

 
 

This article is perfect for me. I was recently forced to give up my crush because of..complications and it's really hard to get over someone you're still in love with, I think this article with help a lot. Thanks GL!! Laughing

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