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How do you stop liking a guy that you know won’t like you back? I've tried everything!

 

It always sucks when your crush doesn’t like you back, but you shouldn’t waste anytime dwelling on that fact. The most important thing is to distract your mind and make yourself so busy that you literally don’t have time to think about him. Here’s how to move on without looking back.

 

Spend more time with your friends and family. Closing yourself off only makes it worse. Get out there and laugh with the ones who know you best.

 

Get back into an old hobby. No, we don’t mean stalking him on Facebook. Step away from social media for a sec and do activities that put a smile on your face.

 

Take your frustrations out through exercising. Pick yourself up and hit the gym or run around the block. A daily dose of endorphin-raising activities will kick your brokenhearted blues fast.

 

Look for someone new to crush on who is nicer and cuter. He’s out there somewhere. Even if you don’t find him right away, keeping your eyes open helps you lose focus of the old flame.

 

Focus on your schoolwork. Crushes only last so long. That gleaming sense of accomplishment from boosting your GPA outlasts any heartache.

 

Learn to cook or bake something new.  We know you’ve got oodles of recipes on your pinboards, and we’ve got tons here and here. Try ‘em out, sweetness!

 

Clear out the mess under your bed and in your closet. A clean start should start with a clean room. Any cutesy momentos that remind you of him? Toss ‘em fast and relish in an uncluttered mind.

 

Start reading a new book. Preferably one that doesn’t draw parallels between the dreamy hero (ahem, Twilight) and your former crush. Pick one that puts your mind as far away from him as possible.

 

Crank up the tunes and dance. Because life’s too short to be a wallflower at your own party – even if it’s just a personal dance party in your room.

 

It won’t be an instant cure, but the ache won’t last forever. Remember that he isn’t the only boy in world and you’re way better off finding a guy who’s just as crazy for you as you are for him.
 
 
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by aikostar12 on 5/2/2012 11:04:37 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!!
there's this guy i like but i don't talk to him very much. (i'm really bad at initiating conversations) i have tried to convince myself to get over him, but every time it starts to work, he'll do or say something that gets my hopes up all over again! this past week or so, every time he see's me he tells me i look like i'm having a blast in a dramatically sarcastic tone and it's really starting to get me angry because i don't need my unhappiness pointed out, you know? and part of the reason i am unhappy sometimes is because i can't get over him but i can't think of anything to say to him and then he has to go and say stuff like that and i know he doesn't mean it to be a jerk, i hope, but like i said, it's annoying. please help if you can!!!

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by the_last_ninja on 5/1/2012 6:26:10 PM

 
 

MOD MOD MOD! I'm moving halfway across the world this summer. Should I break up with my boyfriend now, or wait, or stay with him?

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by coccinelle4 on 4/30/2012 4:43:10 PM

 
 



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My mom and I are very close. We can talk about anything and we have a very honest relationship. My mom is my best friend. I have a notebook, and a set of pens. My mom and I write in the notebook every night. I write a page of questions, she answers them, and then she writes a page of questions and I answer them. It helps us get closer and stuff. I like doing it but my friends think it's baby-ish to like being with your mom. What should I do?




Hey girlie,

Everyone's relationship with their parents is different, and I don't think this is babyish at all! It's great that you have an open and honest relationship with your mom - it's great to have a parent that you trust, who you can talk to about anything. Teen years aren't easy for all sorts of reasons but, with mom's support and love, you'll be in great shape Smile It's important to have balance, so make sure you spend time with your besties your own age as well. But there's nothing wrong with having mom as one of your close friends! <3
Lauren C.

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by New_York_City on 4/28/2012 11:23:10 PM

 
 



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There is this one guy who is in a lot of my classes and he is constantly bugging me. He is always saying he loves me in a really stupid voice and keeps saying he is my boyfriend. I've tried ignoring him but he just wont stop! What should I do?




Hey girlie,

I know it sounds like a tattle-tale move, but it could really help if you talked to your teacher(s) about the guy who is bugging you. They could help assign his seat away from yours or at least be on the lookout for rude behavior from him. It might also help to FIRMLY stand up to him if you reach your breaking point - turn to him and say, "You need to knock it off NOW. I'd love to be friends but this is getting to be too much. Stop spreading rumors and stop harassing me. I'm tired of it and it needs to stop." If you're strong and say how you feel to him, then walk away, you'll leave him with something to think about - that the joking around isn't actually helping him get closer to you. It's only pushing you away <3 
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