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First-Kiss Freak-Out: Is it normal to get nauseous?

 
A boy I've known for 12 years asked me out on my first date. We hung out a couple of nights ago and he was so serious about me; I could tell that he really likes me. He almost kissed me, and I was so nervous that I became nauseous. I even pushed him away. Is it normal to feel this nervous before a first kiss?

 

Hey girl! Your first kiss is a major moment in your life. Very few girls are not nervous before their first kiss…it’s perfectly normal. It sounds to me like this boy was pretty intense, so that definitely could have contributed to your nerves. Your first kiss may seem scary, but it will be so special and wonderful when it happens. If not, you’ll have plenty of other times to get that special kiss with someone you really like.

 

With that being said, don’t rush it! This boy is obviously into you, but how do you feel? When he went in to kiss you, did you push him away because you were nervous or because you simply didn’t want to kiss him? Take a moment to stop and think about your feelings for him before diving into a first kiss that you might not be ready for. Take your time, follow your gut, and when that special moment comes, relax and enjoy!
 
 

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Hey, I have a boyfriend but I havent kisssed him. Im pretty sure he is going to french kiss. The real problem is I dont know how. Please help me .

 

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Jenn S.

by MYAH537 on 1/2/2013 12:53:27 PM

 
 



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This guy really likes me i know that boy when i was 7 am 15 right now and i first say him last sunday we look at each other like we never saw each other beacuse i havent seen him for 4 years and when we were by are selfs he hug me and then he tryed to kiss me i just pushed him way i really like him and so does he but if he try to kiss me again what should i do?




Hey girlie,

If you don't want to kiss right now, don't be afraid to say so! Just be honest - tell him you really like him and you'd love to get to know him better, but you kinda want to take things a little slower right now. Ask him to hang out again and suggest doing "smaller" stuff, like holding hands. You should never let a boy pressure you into something (like kissing) if you don't feel comfortable with it! Go at your own pace. <3 
Lauren C.

by enstana on 8/16/2012 9:31:02 PM

 
 



MOD MOD MOD MOD MOD!!Okay, so I've never had my first kiss. I really like this 1 guy, and would be okay with kissing him, and hes coming to my birthday party. But, Im not sure what to do if i get super nervous (Which happens alot to me around him) If we get close, and kiss, I would feel happy and nervous, together,... .Any tips??

 

Hey girl! Only kiss him if you're totally ready.  It's normal to feel nervous, though, I'm sure he will be too!  Pop in a breath mint a little bit before you plan on kissing him, take a deep breath, and think about whether you want to have your first kiss with HIM or you just want to have your first kiss.  Kissing someone just to do it isn't worth it, you don't need to get your first kiss out of the way.  xoxo 


Kate G.

by teampeeta4ever on 8/15/2012 4:10:40 AM

 
 

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Well I made out with this guy who is older than me he's 14 and I'm 12 he wanted to have sex but I said no I was to young and it was really awkward the rest of the night. I lied to him and said I was 13 and he lives like 7 hours away and I can't stop thinking about are steamy moment (it was my first real make out) and I can't talk to my friends about it because none of them have done anything like that. I'm really confused if what I did was wrong or not?

Hey girl,

You did NOT do anything wrong!!!! If you aren't 100% comfortable with something, you should never do it even if a guy wants you to!! If he is pressuring you to do what you're not ready for, he is not the right guy for you. Do what you are comfortable with and save the rest for when you are older!! There will be plenty of time for guys down the road!

Meghan D.

by lovechild33 on 8/10/2012 11:28:09 PM

 
 

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so I was in the car with my friend and her brother.I kind of like her brother. let's call him "joe." so Joe was just staring at us trying to be funny so we decided to do it to him too to get him to stop. so our faces were super close. about half an inch away from eachother. then I noticed Joe started shaking a bit and he finally pulled away. he just stared, and this might have just been me but it seemed like he kept looking at my lips. then he wraped his shirt over his lips (he was wearing two) and started doing it agian.then when I had to go he smiled and said bye to me for the first time ever. do you think he wanted to kiss me or is it the other way around? sorry this is so long.

Hey girl,

I really don't know what he wanted (it might have just been awkward, or he was just playing around!), but if you like your friend's brother, you should talk to your friend before you do anything! She might be upset and want to talk about it with you, and she will be hurt if you did anything before telling her!

Meghan D.

by super8-girl on 8/3/2012 11:37:04 PM

 
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