How do you know when a guy really likes a girl or is just
"using" her? I'm fourteen now and I'm dating my crush since middle
school. At first I felt like I scored because I finally got him. But now I'm
just afraid he plans on "using" me like most teenage boys do in relationships.
Answer: “Sometimes guys are insecure and don’t know how to show a girl that
they really like her, so he may be nervous around you and not really know how
to be in a relationship,” says Jack, 15. “But he could be using you if he
pressures you into doing things you don’t want to do.”
Decoded: It’s possible that you two just need to get
to know each other better before you can get that cool relationship you
want. What’s not cool? Feeling like he is pressuring you to do
anything you’re not ready for.
Your Move: If he ever tries to make you do
anything you’re not ready for, tell him you’re not okay with it. Your relationship is 50/50, you both should
have an equal say in what happens. If he
doesn’t respect that, dating him is so not worth it. Look for a cutie that is honest with you
about why he likes you, and be honest with him too!
BY ANDREA CWIEKA ON 5/9/2014 12:00:00 AM
POSTED IN guys, dating advice, GL's best guy advice, boyfriend Q & A, kissing crash course, I'm not ready to kiss, pressure to get physical, too far too fast