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I have liked this guy for a while, but he has a girlfriend. When his GF isn’t around, he always flirts with me! I like him so much, but is he just a player?


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You have a couple options. You can continue to enjoy the flirting but hold on to your heart so you don’t wind up with dashed hopes. Or you can step back and convince yourself that it’s not worth crushing on someone who is taken yet pays a lot of attention to someone else—you. Most school relationships don’t last forever, so it’s possible he’ll move on and all this low-key flirtation will blossom into something later. But be careful what you wish for because, chances are, he may always be the kind of boyfriend who keeps his eyes open for the next romance.
 
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by radiolovergirl on 8/9/2012 12:01:41 PM

 
 



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Hey i recently just got advice to not like this guy who lives halfway across the country cause he has a gf but still likes me! I cant stop thinking bout him though! And i don't like any1 at my skool cause i really like him! I don't know what to do cause i really cant stop thinking bout him and i dont want him and his gf to break up because of me but im an early teenager so their relashionship probs wont last 4ever ya know! I just dont know what to do! HELP!!! Thanks!
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Hey girl! I know it may seem hard to get over him, but since you guys live so far apart, your relationship wouldn't really be all that exciting.  Long distance relationships are tough, and starting one when you don't know the next time you'll ge the chance to see each other makes it even tougher.  Their relationship might not last forever, but yours with this guy might not either, so save yourself some heartache and try your hardest to find other guys.  For awhile it might seem impossible, but eventually you'll find a guy who interests you.  xoxo 


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by slgoethel on 8/9/2012 11:17:27 AM

 
 



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Hi, i have a serious issue. So i just got back from a cruise where i met a really nice guy. He gave me his number and we hugged and did what most bf's and gf's would do. Then just about a half and hour ago i found out he has a girlfriend but he told me he kinda likes me and said he would more if we got 2 know each other better. what do i do. do i tell him how i feel and maybe will he b done with his girlfriend. btw i forgot 2 tell u he lives in Louisiana which is like the other side of the country. Please Help!!!
Jenna

 

Hey chica! Sounds like this guy isn't as nice as you think he is.  What if you were his girlfriend- how would you feel knowing your dude was flirting with other girls, giving them his number, and telling them he would like them if he knew them better?  You'd probably be mad and crushed.  Instead of starting a long distance relationship, find a new guy at school and a new crush- and cut this guy off.  xoxo 


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by slgoethel on 8/9/2012 11:04:23 AM

 
 

Thanks Lynae P. so much. I appreciate it Smile

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by Icecreamluver on 8/8/2012 7:08:04 PM

 
 

Hey Icecreamluver, they aren't intentionally ignoring you, it's just that they have to respond to a lot of girls and they maybe haven't gotten to yours yet. I'll try to send an email for you too. Sorry you've been waiting so long, thanx for being patient! Xoxo



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Please please please please please please help. I don't know what to do. Ok so the beach reads giveaway in June gave this book away called Reckless heart that I won. I never got it. It said u had to wait six weeks when I've been waiting 7-8. I emailed both trish and Brittany last week and I didn't get an answer. So I emailed them again this week on Sunday again and I still haven't gotten an answer from them yet. What if they don't answer again by the end of this week? What am I suppose to do? Then who am I suppose to email? Lynae P.

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