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So i've liked this guy for 3 years (ik a long time) and last year I became really good friends with him. Now we talk ALL the time and we're practically best friends. Everyone says we should date and he always answers with "we're JUST friends". Only my best friend knows I like him. So today we were texting and he says he likes two of my best friends a LOT. I want to help him, but it hurts a little bit every time he says how much he likes them and I've been HARDCORE FRIEND ZONED. I would usually ask my best friend for advice on this but he kind of likes her and I swore not to tell. Most people would tell me to tell him I like him but I'm not sure if it'd ruin our friendship. I'm so confused. Should I help him win them over, not get involved, or pretend it's not happening?

 

Hey! I would just not get involved. If he asks you why you can always say that you don't want to get mixed up in your friends' love lives because that's true.  good luck, I hope you feel better about this soon. you can do it! 

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So I know it's not the right topic to talk about but I recently shaved my arms, legs, and armpits just for joining the girls basketball team, I went to my friend's house to do it, I didn't tell my mom I did that, she said I can start shaving when I'm 15, I will be in 3 months, so I had to shave since it got very hairy and I am an indoor person wearing long sleeves, sweaters, jackets and long pants to cover up my body so yeah..I asked my friend will the hair grow back more thicker, she said it's true but you got to shave once every month since she does that with her venus shaving razor/thing? I'm worried about that! I am like my dad so I got a lot of hair, and what if I have to keep wearing long sleeves the rest of my life to cover it up, shaving is too much time! I wish there was a cream to remove it! UGH! My mom was thinking about waxing but she also said that it doesn't really matter if you shave or not, people got to like you for who you are and how you already look..

 

hey! You're mom's right, you should only shave if you want to. There are hair removal creams, but I've heard they're not as effective as shaving. I find shaving every 1-2 weeks keeps things in check. good luck!