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this is kinda gross and weird by really super important
okay so i've had my ears pierced for two years and
well, i had an earing on way to tight and now it's bleeding
should i put he earing back in to keep it from closing
or leave it?

Hey PlushPurplePanda, your hole won't close because they've been pierced for two years. Take the earring out and give your ears a break. Wet a cotton ball and clean your ear. When it feels good put it back in. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

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by PlushPurplePanda on 11/29/2012 8:13:49 PM

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I have a crush on a guy and i think he likes me he stares at me and smiles and gives me compliments how can i get to talk to him more? We only have lunch together and it would be akward talking to him because all of his friends can act really immature.

Hey ToxicCrayon, when he compliments you keep the convo going. Compliment him back and ask him questions. Maybe even get his number. Hope this helps! Xoxo

Lynae P.

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by ToxicCrayon on 11/29/2012 7:12:39 PM

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Feel free to hide this if it is too inappropriate!
Guys always act like this to me. Guys will call me from across the hall and (be inappropriate) I'm only 13! I don't wear revealing clothing, I've never taken drugs, smoked, drank, or gone to a party. (Except birthday parties!) I don't talk about this stuff. I don't even swear! Why do they act like this toward me?! They don't act like this to other girls that ive seen except girls that have (been inappropriate) Please answer this question! And I'm sorry if this is too inappropriate for this site. I just want to know why they act like this to me?!?
Thanks

Hey Girl, guys can be really immature and at your age girls have developed a bit more than guys. They might think that they are being funny, but the truth is that what they're doing can be considered sexual harassment. If it makes you uncomfortable, you need to tell them to stop and tell an adult.

Hannah H.

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by turnonthemusic1 on 11/29/2012 4:07:38 PM

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There is this guy I am pretty sure that likes me (he's complimented me and "accidentally" bumped into me a couple of times in the hallways.) I think I like him back (I am not too sure) and I do not know what to say back to him when he flirts (I am not very good with that sort of thing and I am shy.) I know I will probably bump into him at a school club activity (and in my class I have with him!) and I want to know what to say/ have an idea of what to say. He's interesting and kinda cute and I think I might want to know more about him. Thanks!

Hey girl,

Us shy girls can have a tough time breaking out of our shell, especially when it comes to a guy we think we might like. The best thing you can do is try and become more comfortable around him. Start small with just a friendly hello when you see him in the halls, or maybe playfully bump into him once or twice? Then work up to starting a conversation. Could you bring up the test you just took in the class you have together? Or is he really good a particular sport that you think he might love talking about? If you wanna know more about him chat with his friends, find out what his interests are, and then use those interests to start a conversation. Good luck! xoxo

alexis g.

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by Bridgge2010 on 11/29/2012 7:50:43 AM

Hey Girls! This is a LEGIT club about boy advice. Called...Legit Boy Advice! Any questions you have let me know because guess what?! I have 5 brothers and I have each age group of boys that you will have questions for (about ANYTHING)get REAL answers from REAL BOYS themselves! All you have to do is include your age and question and I'll get right too it!

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by Chloe<3 on 11/28/2012 5:41:53 PM