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The best way to get his attention? Be chill


 
I've noticed myself chilling out a lot more when I'm around my crush, considering that we're finally actually FRIENDS. I'm starting to wonder, though, do guys like it better when girls are chill or when they freak out around them? I can imagine that freaking out would be flattering but also annoying.

His Answer: “I definitely prefer a girl that’s pretty chill. You can’t really take a girl who freaks out and is really dramatic seriously…it gets annoying. But don’t be too chilled that you’re boring. Just be fun without going crazy and overboard!”--Patrick, 18

Decoded: What Patrick is trying to say is that even though you may think the dramatic girls get more attention, they are not what guys are looking for. Guys actually take those girls as a joke more than anything! Patrick and most guys want someone to have fun with, without being annoyed.

Your Move: Don’t be that girl who makes a fool of herself! Continue to do what you do and you’ll be surprised how much attention you may get from your crush if you stay chill. You’re on the right track to getting your crush! You go girl!

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Lets say my crush's name is Jon, and his friend's name(who is my friend too) is Jack. Jon and I have been friends for about 9 months and we realy click. I think he likes me back. He and Jack are on the swim team so I went to the swim meet a few days ago with my friend. I waved at them and they smiled. The next day Jack asked me why I went and I said because I wanted to(he doesn't buy it). Now I feel like a stalker so I'm not going to another swim meet this year. Should I tell Jon I like him now, or wait 3 months for the freshman formal? Am I scaring him away?
Help please!!!!

by Quietfriend1415 on 1/5/2013 7:27:54 PM

 
 

By Quietfriend1415
Lets say my crush's name is Jon, and his friend's name(who is my friend too) is Jack. Jon and I have been friends for about 9 months and we realy click. I think he likes me back. He and Jack are on the swim team so I went to the swim meet a few days ago with my friend. I waved at them and they smiled. The next day Jack asked me why I went and I said because I wanted to(he doesn't buy it). Now I feel like a stalker so I'm not going to another swim meet this year. Should I tell Jon I like him now, or wait 3 months for the freshman formal? Am I scaring him away?

by Quietfriend1415 on 1/5/2013 7:17:48 PM

 
 

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Lets say my crush's name is Jon and his friend's name(who is my friend too) is Jack. Jon and I have been friends for 9 months and we realy click. My friends think he likes me back but I am afriad to make the next move. Jon and Jack are both on the swim team so I went to cheer on Jon by sitting quietly and looking at his abbs with my friend who thinks I should go out with him. The next day Jack asked me why I went and I said because I wanted to(he didn't buy it). I feel like a stalker now so I am not going to another swim meet this year. I was wondering if I should tell Jon that I like him or wait for the formal in 3 months. Am I creeping Jon out?

by Quietfriend1415 on 1/5/2013 7:07:28 PM

 
 

Here is my latest delema..
To start, I am making up names. Lets say my crush's name is Jon, and how about his friend's name(who is also my friend)is Jack.
Okay, so Jon and I have been friends since the end of last year and I got a crush on him shortly after. We hang out and realy click. Jon and Jack are both on the swim team so I went to it the other day and they waved at me. The next day Jack asked me why I went and I said because I wanted to(he doesn't buy it).
Now I am afriad that I am becoming a stalker so I wont go to another swim meet this year. My friends are pretty sure Jon likes me back so should I tell him that I like him or hold off till the formal in April?

by Quietfriend1415 on 1/5/2013 6:49:16 PM

 
 



Mod mod mod!!!!
I know this is really stupid, and I'm going to sound like a stalker... But here goes.
I'm 13 and there is a guy I like, but I've never spoke to him in my life. He's 15, he's spanish, and he plays lots of sports (I'm into football so this is good) and he is amazingly good looking. He lives on the same street as my best friend, but she hasn't spoke to him. Everytime we walk past we smile and wave at each other, but that is as far as our encounters have gone. I can't stop thinking about him and I really really want to get to know him but I can't just go and say hi because he'll think I'm crazy. I also don't know what his personality is like; but that's why I want to get to know him. He seems really nice, and one day maybe I'll have the confidence to ask him out. But I can't get myself in there to do that! I need to talk to him but I can't think of the right situation? Please help Smile xx

 

Hey! It sounds to me like you really like this guy Smile congrats, it can be fun to have a crush. The best way to deal with this is to be his friend and see if something more happens naturally. I have seen so many girls get hurt and ruin friendships because they "had to know" if someone liked them, and they asked the guy about it and made the whole situation awkward. I even did that myself when I was younger. It's better to have a secret crush on your friend than to have a public crush on your ex-friend. good luck!  



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