There's this (cute) foreign exchange student from Germany in my high school I have a crush on, and would like to ask him out to a movie or something. There's a dance coming up but it's a neon theme, should I ask him to the dance and/or ask him to a movie or to go some place else in the state? Should I ask him in his native language (German) or English?

If you want to ask him to go to the dance you could, or you could ask him to dance with you once you're there! A movie would also be fun, and I don't think it matters what language you ask him in if you know German, or if not I'm sure English is fine Good luck chica!

How can you stop liking a guy, cause I like him even though I don't want to. I've had a crush on him for the past 4 years, and even when I tell myself there are other fish in the sea, I still can't get this guy out of my head. He's a ninth grader while I'm an eighth grader, and he already has a girlfriend (I think). We used to be really good friends back in 5th and 6th grade, and I got to slow dance with him once, but it is all for not. Even if we did have a relationship, I don't think it would work out very well, but there is always this hopeful voice in my head that says it will. Ugh! It always hurts to see him, and I try to avoid him all the time. What should I do???? Any advice will be helpful. Sometimes I also think dating somebody would be the answer to getting him out of my head, but than would really be then only reason for dating somebody. Being single is fine for me, but soooo hard too. All in all, I have one messed up love life. Help!

You're right that if he's dating someone else, you can't be with him! Check out this post for tips on getting over a guy http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/10/12/How-can-I-get-over-my-ex.aspx