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When boys ask me out, I always say no. It’s because I don’t like anyone that much and don’t need all that drama in my life. My friends think I should start dating so they always make fun of me about it, which makes me feel awkward and upset. How can I let the boys down in a way that won’t hurt their feelings?

Dear Heartbreaker,

It’s perfectly OK to say a sweet, “No, but thank you anyway,” with zero explanation, or, “Thanks, but I don’t want to date anyone right now.” If you’re not comfortable being so direct, you can let a guy down gently and tell him that your parents won’t let you date. No need to swear off boys forever, but it’s admirable that you listen to your heart rather than to other girls’ opinions. When friends jeer or push, remind yourself that their immaturity is their problem and not yours.
 
 
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I really like this guy, and we started texting all the time, he would call me gorgeous and beautiful and everything i could want him to say to me,after a few months he told me that he was really starting to like me, then that weekend i was talking to a girl i knew and she said he was saying all the same things he had told me, i didnt tell her he was saying it too me to because i didnt want her to be hurt like i was, when i confronted him he said "i didnt do anything wrong" and we havent talked since, that was a month ago.. i know i shouldnt feel like i did anything wrong and i think i deserve better.. but i need help getting over him ? :/

Hey girlie,

If she didn't tell you when he said those things to her, maybe he liked her before he liked you. Instead of confronting him, maybe you could ask him about it more casually and tell him about the people you have dated before too if that would make you feel more close to him. But if he said that to her a while ago, it's okay that he's changed his mind since then! You could try talking to him as friends again, or if you still want to move on, check out this article for some tips: http://www.girlslife.com/post/2011/10/12/How-can-I-get-over-my-ex.aspx

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by Tayla8991 on 2/1/2013 9:09:43 PM

 
 



mod mod mod whats there to do in toronto?

 

Hey Girl, I've never been to Toronto, but they have a lot of museums and hockey season just started. A game would be fun to go to.

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by StrawberryPatchKid on 1/31/2013 3:16:47 PM

 
 



mod mod mod whats the average age to have kids?

 

Hey Girl, I think it's later 20s. why do you ask?

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by StrawberryPatchKid on 1/31/2013 3:16:12 PM

 
 



mod mod mod how do you get training to be a hospital transporter

 

 

Hey Girl, that is a great question to talk to a professional about or your school guidance counselor.

Hannah H. 


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by StrawberryPatchKid on 1/31/2013 3:15:46 PM

 
 



mod mod mod whats a few interesting school assignments?

 

 

What type of school assignments? I had one assignment where we had to write a story, then create a dictionary, and create artifacts to prove the story was real. it was so cool.

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